"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Get Tested!

JazzPimpNYC

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The statistics are shocking; STD's are running rampant. Just a reminder that if you are sexually active, GET TESTED for these diseases. Most show no symptoms for quite a while, and during this dormant period you could be spreading them to others without knowing. Just a few seconds of any genital contact can spread some STDs. ALWAYS wear a condom if you ever decide to have sex. Be aware that a condom can not protect from a number of STD's and that the failure rate for the condom itself is high enough to risk an infection/pregnancy.

I know that most of you know this information. Just a reminder!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great advice.

Never swim in new waters without protection.

Some people complain that sex with a condom just isn't the same. . . It's not, but I don't it think it's any worse--just a bit different. Lube up: you're still in a wet hole, and it feels great.


TOOTLES™
 

AbAbber2k

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I agree. Wrap it up people. Those that complain about condoms probably either a) haven't tried them and don't plan on it or b) have some other problems they need to address first. They do feel a little different, though I think my gf notices more than I do. She likes it better bareback (funny how the complaining stops later though), but if she's tries anything before I've wrapped up, I throw the b1tch off me. :p NOT WORTH THE RISK (stds or pregnancy).
 

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Yeah. My dad has Genital Herpes. I even did a research paper on Genital Herpes. I was surpised at the statistics. 1 in 5 people have Genital Herpes. That's Genital Herpes, I'm sure at least 30% sexually active people have some sort of STI.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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familyguyfan

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Isn't getting tested really expensive? Some lady came to my school to talk about abstinance, and she said it was real expensive for guys to get tested ($1,000?). However, I know for a fact that many of the stuff she said was bullsh*t (I'm not saying she didn't mean well, just that she overexaggerated a lot of stuff), so that could very well be BS as well. Which I'm sure it is because I couldn't see anyone getting tested if it was really that much.
 

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Just saw a documentary on Ron Jeremy. He's ****ed over 4000 women during his career in porn and never caught anything.

They get tested every month now, but in the 70's it was bearback heaven.

Don't forget all the heps as well, crabs etc. better off staying in and have a wank eh?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Isn't getting tested really expensive? Some lady came to my school to talk about abstinance, and she said it was real expensive for guys to get tested ($1,000?). However, I know for a fact that many of the stuff she said was bullsh*t (I'm not saying she didn't mean well, just that she overexaggerated a lot of stuff), so that could very well be BS as well. Which I'm sure it is because I couldn't see anyone getting tested if it was really that much.
Sadly, there is a lot of bullsh!t like this going on these days, thanks to the current conservative government. I'm sure if you Google around for getting tested about STD's, you'll find more realistic information.
 
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