She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I dated a girl over 2 years ago and we raw dogged it. She was older and had had all her innarts removed so she couldn't get pregnant. I never have had any symptons but it's been looming in the back of my mind, did I catch something from her and not know it yet? I have thought about getting tested just to ease my mind. I'm not even sure where to go to get tested, my regular doctor??BlackDragon said:
.You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Actually, you have it too! Almost everyone who has sex with more than 2-3 partners has had it, will get it, and/or it will clear the body within a few months. A very small percentage of infected people develop the symptoms, warts, assiciated with HPV. And there is no testing for males. Deal with it.sparky0000 said:HPV :cheer: . You have it. Hip Hip Hooray!!!!! About half of the 20-24 year old American broads have it. I would suspect that the old broads that you boys adore would almost always have it. Believe me, America is a great place to NOT have sex