darksprezzatura
Master Don Juan
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I have been away from the forum, expanding my social circle, getting into a business school, working out and eating right.
I have noticed men get stuck on the intricacies and complexities of “game” instead of actually getting out there.
It’s the fear that gets them.
The study of the game becomes an excuse for a guy, who is reading up everything he comes across for game, instead of actually cold approaching a girl and closing her successfully.
This all boils down to fear of rejection.
Most men are afraid to cold approach/physically escalate or ask a girl out are scared of knowing if their attraction to the woman is one sided.
This makes him spend a long time learning the “how to” instead of actually taking action.
In my opinion, THE red pill inner game/outer game combination comes when you assume attraction.
Imagine if the girl you cold approached already likes you, you will have no trouble creating a sexual vibe and physically escalate steadily and confidently.
I noticed some simple and non-complicated methods work very well with women.
1) Act around a woman the way you would act around a woman who likes you
2) As a natural consequence of 1, you wouldn’t try to impress her/entertain her, you can proceed by using a poker face reaction to her baits and act aloof while escalating physically and giving her the opportunities to escalate with you back.
3) Just look at her with deadpan expressions and move closer
4) Become comfortable with silence. Learn to saunter than rush when walking. Master deadpan expressions. Learn to remain still for long periods of time.
5) These methods would create a tension between you both whether she likes you or not, and due to biology, this tension is sexual in nature- heart beating faster, fidgeting, nervousness. Using these methods might risk you off as “creepy” if she doesn’t like you. But if she does indeed like you, which she probably would due to your confidence, this would make her think you are even more sexy.
6) When in doubt deadpan. When you get a **** test you don’t know how to respond to, deadpan. Deadpan everything.
7) Using a seductive vibe, deadpan expression, letting her qualify herself, avoiding her baits to break rapport you create sexual tension, then relieve it a BIT by physically escalating and reassuring her. Not to late, not too soon,
8) Even though sexually arousing a woman doesn’t happen in an instant, a woman can instantly tell if she’s attracted to a guy, it’s just that most men are afraid to find out.
9) The moment to kiss her might not be viable at any instant, or the surrounding might not be appropriate, a better way still to escalate and see if there’s mutual attraction is to hold her hand, caress her and see if she caresses it back
10) As the mutual caressingly signifies mutual seduction, go for the kiss, then pull her ( not as her ) to go some place secluded.
11) Close the deal.
I have noticed men get stuck on the intricacies and complexities of “game” instead of actually getting out there.
It’s the fear that gets them.
The study of the game becomes an excuse for a guy, who is reading up everything he comes across for game, instead of actually cold approaching a girl and closing her successfully.
This all boils down to fear of rejection.
Most men are afraid to cold approach/physically escalate or ask a girl out are scared of knowing if their attraction to the woman is one sided.
This makes him spend a long time learning the “how to” instead of actually taking action.
In my opinion, THE red pill inner game/outer game combination comes when you assume attraction.
Imagine if the girl you cold approached already likes you, you will have no trouble creating a sexual vibe and physically escalate steadily and confidently.
I noticed some simple and non-complicated methods work very well with women.
1) Act around a woman the way you would act around a woman who likes you
2) As a natural consequence of 1, you wouldn’t try to impress her/entertain her, you can proceed by using a poker face reaction to her baits and act aloof while escalating physically and giving her the opportunities to escalate with you back.
3) Just look at her with deadpan expressions and move closer
4) Become comfortable with silence. Learn to saunter than rush when walking. Master deadpan expressions. Learn to remain still for long periods of time.
5) These methods would create a tension between you both whether she likes you or not, and due to biology, this tension is sexual in nature- heart beating faster, fidgeting, nervousness. Using these methods might risk you off as “creepy” if she doesn’t like you. But if she does indeed like you, which she probably would due to your confidence, this would make her think you are even more sexy.
6) When in doubt deadpan. When you get a **** test you don’t know how to respond to, deadpan. Deadpan everything.
7) Using a seductive vibe, deadpan expression, letting her qualify herself, avoiding her baits to break rapport you create sexual tension, then relieve it a BIT by physically escalating and reassuring her. Not to late, not too soon,
8) Even though sexually arousing a woman doesn’t happen in an instant, a woman can instantly tell if she’s attracted to a guy, it’s just that most men are afraid to find out.
9) The moment to kiss her might not be viable at any instant, or the surrounding might not be appropriate, a better way still to escalate and see if there’s mutual attraction is to hold her hand, caress her and see if she caresses it back
10) As the mutual caressingly signifies mutual seduction, go for the kiss, then pull her ( not as her ) to go some place secluded.
11) Close the deal.
