"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Get more smilies...

Climax

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I did a search and found 2 "more smilies" threads where no responce was given.... So I thought I'd bring it up again....

Can we maybe get more smilies for the forum? At the moment there are 11 smilies that we can choose from, which is a decent ammount, but do you think we could get some more? :rolleyes: Just an idea;)


Laterz...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I actually PMed allen a while ago about this and he said that he'd think about it cause he does agree that more smilies would be good. :)

So we'll see.
 

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Any word from Allen yet?

Any Updates?:rolleyes: ;)


Laterz...
 

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smileys

I like this idea. More smileys would be cooler then any avatars or anything else that is usually suggested.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You guys want smilies because the forum gets boring eh.

How about soem fresh air. Every person you see outside has a different face. It's better than smileys. You should try it sometime.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
What a novel idea; I can't believe I hadn't thought about it before.


:rolleyes:
today was really pretty and sunny...
did anyone do anything today?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
today was really pretty and sunny...
did anyone do anything today?
I went to the batting cages and went to church. Then I had lunch with my friends and had a convo with a spanish chick. Also went wading in the creek
 

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Originally posted by comic_relief
I went to the batting cages and went to church. Then I had lunch with my friends and had a convo with a spanish chick. Also went wading in the creek
you get the award of the first sunny sunday in spring

which means i t hink you are the only one that did anything outside today


however, gio and i went out and about yesterday and had a blast .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Kerensky
See I knew you guys would come around. Outside > smilies.
Didn't you leave?
 

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Ok, time for a reality check...

Originally posted by Kerensky
See I knew you guys would come around. Outside > smilies.
When you get to the stage where u party and go out just HALF the amount that i do, then I'll think about listening to your advice;) Till then, take your own advice:rolleyes:

And getting more smilies has nothing to do with getting out or not, its just making things "nicer" by giving us more options to express what we say.

Vincent: y0 dude... Has Allen gotten back to you yet?:)


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Re: Ok, time for a reality check...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Vincent: y0 dude... Has Allen gotten back to you yet?:)
Other then "Yeah that's a good idea. I've been wanting to add smilies as well"

Then no.
 

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Re: got more smileys

no one and I mean no one can complain that the suggestions and feedback forum gets you nothing. If you do you can answer to our mods:trouble: and I only got this to say to you that do complain:moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Thanx =}

Yeah Baby!:rockon: Thanx Mods/Allen:up:


Laterz.... :wave:
 
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