"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get Lasik, Yes or No?

Should I get Lasik?

  • yes

    Votes: 27 81.8%
  • no

    Votes: 6 18.2%

  • Total voters
    33

Ever onward

Master Don Juan
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gmonster2 said:
It is after all a laser scarring your eye not something u can change back if u decide its not for you! I think theres a new procedure where they insert lenses into the eye which can be removed so no permanent damage.
I've heard of that procedure and it makes me cringe! What if the thing tears? Have you ever had a torn contact on your eye? Imagine having a torn contact on your eye that you couldn't remove unless you went to the emergency room or something. Or how about if you get something under it? OUCH! No way!

The risks are almost minimal with Lasik. Everyone is really nervous before having it done. Read my posts before I had it done. I was completely afraid that permanent damage would be done to my eyes.

Just do your research and make sure you go to an accredited Lasik Dr. Then ask for testimonials from people who've had Lasik there. Usually they have that stuff available upon request.

LASIK RULES!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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