Get Laid Journal (GLJ)

[AFC2DJ]

OK pretty much this is my situation. I turn 21 in a month, and I have never been laid let along kissed a girl or even made a cold approach. But **** it, all that is going to change. I will get laid before I'm 21, even with a fat girl if I have to. I was going to do the DJ bootcamp, but that is to ****ing slow I can't wait a month before I even start number closing. So for the next 30 days or less(until I get laid) I am going to document my progress for all the young noobies like myself. Hopefully it will help, and hopefully I will get ****ing laid. Anyway wish me lucky boys, and I will post my first FR in this thread tomorrow.

p.s. I haven't jerked off for more then a month now so testosterone is raging .

 

[mrRuckus]

sniff sniff

ew desperation reeks

 

[Fash]

p.s. I haven't jerked off for more then a month now so testosterone is raging .

Not a good idea as your first time will last approximately 3 seconds.

Just curious... do you have a plan?

 

[krasnyiLion]

great!!!!!!!!!!!!
i am with you 100%
that is what people need to start doing, to start being MEN of Action.

go out there and get rejected. The only way you will find out how to be a true DJ is out on the field.

some heads up though: you will get rejected a lot more than actually number closing. Specially in cold approaches as i have experienced this. It shook me up a little at first, but a man's character is not judge by his successes but by how he recovers from his failures.

it is easy being confident and charming when things go your way.
it takes skills to overcome setbacks.
but it takes takes a true man, to go against adversity and conquer the unthinkable.

GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ValleyDJing]

Not a good idea as your first time will last approximately 3 seconds.

Just curious... do you have a plan?

yeah, but at least he'll squirt harder! lol! :rockon:

 

[Wiesman44]

not jerking off for a month is bad for your prostrate, or so I hear.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I always crack up when I visit the main forum and see yet another guy thinking that not jerking the meat will somehow make you a fuvk closing machine. Yes, you'll have a higher than normal testosterone level, but if you don't have any game it won't matter if you don't wack it for a month or a year. You'll still be Hans Solo until you get over your fear.



PIMP

 

[backbreaker]

in all honesty, and this might be conterversal, I would visit a nice "massage parlor" or get you an escort... you need to know what a ***** looks like before you go out there, becuse you have all this negative engery about what you haven't or can't do.. get it out your system.

 

[AFC2DJ]

ew desperation reeks

Yeah maybe, but at least I get motivation with desperation not like before where I would sit on my ass and do nothing. And if by desperation you mean get laid within a month, it's all to do with goal setting. If you put a time limit on a task it's much more likely to be completed.

By the way 2*8 pwns 5*5.

Not a good idea as your first time will last approximately 3 seconds.

Just curious... do you have a plan?

Yeah if things are starting to get serious, I might. But only if I know I have a guaranteed lay. And yeah I've got a plan. I am going to try and complete as many tasks as I can, as fast as I can from DJ boot camp, stylelife challenge and another Boot camp I got from ASF. I'll also add a few of my own challenges. I am going to dedicate 2 hours a day from here on in to FIELD RELATED pick up.

great!!!!!!!!!!!!
i am with you 100%
that is what people need to start doing, to start being MEN of Action.

go out there and get rejected. The only way you will find out how to be a true DJ is out on the field.

some heads up though: you will get rejected a lot more than actually number closing. Specially in cold approaches as i have experienced this. It shook me up a little at first, but a man's character is not judge by his successes but by how he recovers from his failures.

it is easy being confident and charming when things go your way.
it takes skills to overcome setbacks.
but it takes takes a true man, to go against adversity and conquer the unthinkable.

GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for the support and advice. I will be sure to take it into account!

yeah, but at least he'll squirt harder! lol!

Man, if Peter North saw me unleash my load. He would be looking for a new job.

not jerking off for a month is bad for your prostrate, or so I hear.

Heard that to. Don't really care that much. Would rather enjoy my younger years and die before I get too old anyway.

not jerking the meat will somehow make you a fuvk closing machine.

I don't expect it to make me a closing machine. I only expected it to give me drive and motivation, which it has! If I had jerked off recently I probably wouldn't care less if I got laid or not.

in all honesty, and this might be conterversal, I would visit a nice "massage parlor" or get you an escort... you need to know what a ***** looks like before you go out there, becuse you have all this negative engery about what you haven't or can't do.. get it out your system.

What the **** are you talking about? I am not really into negative energy and charkras! And I don't understand why it would help me anymore then going out and approaching. But if I don't get laid by the end of the month, which won't happen. I will defiantly consider.

 

[AFC2DJ]

Day One

I'm ****ing busy with Assignments and work at the moment. But put aside 20 minutes to walk into town. Got like 10 Hi's while I was walking in, no big deal for me really. No body wanted to make eye contact or say hello back. Even though I had a huge smile on my face because I was thinking about a good Dane Cook joke.

Got in town walked into the Book Shop to pick up my preorder "I hope they serve beer in hell". Have a convo with the guy while he tries to find my book. Kind of boring, I didn't really give a **** just wanted a practice convo.

Then went to walk back home and there was a cute HB8(goth/raver), who I noticed was looking and me. Turned to face her and she looked away straight away. I didn't have the balls to approach. Anyway it got me pumped because I want to be able to approach a chick like that no problem by the end of this week.

Will defiently dedicate more time to it tomorrow!

 

[mrRuckus]

By the way 2*8 pwns 5*5.

I don't need lifting advice from a guy with a "deflower me" journal.

 

[AFC2DJ]

Day 2

Field Time(1hr)

Didn't have time to go out and approach during the day because of school. Anyway was going to go out at 7 to watch some local boys spin, but I fell asleep on the couch . So I woke up and did some HIIT, was going to go to bed but thought to myself **** this **** I am going out. So went to a local club by myself. I walk passed 2 HB's, one is dancing and her other friend says to me "OMG, she shouldn't be dancing in the street, should she?". Anyway I reply in a hell ***** voice "nah, it's all good!". And kept on walking. ****. I should have opened that set up but just didn't have the balls.

I get to the club, don't really know anyone there. It was a completely different crowed then on Saturdays(which is good), and they had a live band instead of the usual dance music. So I just stood around playing with my mobile phone not knowing what the **** to do. Anyway a new band comes on and starts playing Dammit, so I am like **** YEAH. Awesome song. Jump into a semi mosh, and stay there for a few more tunes. I think a couple of girls might have been checking me out. But again I did nothing.

Anyway does anybody know anything about approaching in mosh's or with live bands? Don't really know how to dance up to them like when a good trance track is playing. I am supposed to be doing deadlifts in less then 6 hours so better go to bed.

2 things I did well:

*Held good EC with chicks, smiled
*Went out even when I was a bit tired

2 things I want to work on tomorrow:

*Fix up voice
*Do some approach's gain more confidence

 

[tuxen]

Maybe you should just open with some canned material to begin with, just so you get used to the approach. Once your comfortable you can scrap the canned sh1t and make stuff up.

Ask girls what clubs they recommend... anything, if they are friendly just continue by finding out their names, what they do and so on.

Dont worry about numbers and picking up yet, that will come once your comfortable.

Appears you still have alot of approach anxiety, so get over it ASAP.