"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get Inspired !

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Having Inspiration is better than sheer will. Fail or succeed you will have peace no matter what because you are simply enjoying the whole process.


Here is a good quote from a good friend:



"when you get into a spiritual approach to life, you are not trying to get someplace else, because you never can get it done. You never are going to get there.

Instead, what you want to do is get to a place where you are at peace. You are connected to God, you are enjoying every single day you have, and the growth of you and your store will take care of themselves."


Now You don't necessarily have to be a spiritual person to have a sense of meaning from this quote, but theres a sense of truth to this. When you are inspired to do a certain thing in your life, everything will just flow naturally because you are enjoying the whole process.

Personally, I believe Iron will and goal setting itself is not going to cut it, Athletes, musicians, artists and many " great people" in the course of history weren't operating from a sense of desperation to fullfill a goal to boost their ego. No, they were inspired and operating from a higher level of consciousness. They did not focus on what they didn't want in their lives, they focus on what they wanted on their lives. They believe the world is full of infinite possibilities.

So if you really want to do something, Follow your heart and Get Inspired to do it and the rest will flow naturally. Belive me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont know about this...

this thread has some stuff saying stuff about god..

but......................... this forum is pretty much all up on fornication, sex before marriage.. manipulating girls.. and one night stands.

i dont see the relation here. it kind of contradicts itself imo.

care to elaborate? :woo:
 

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What Excites you?

Let me ask you a question that pertains to your purpose? ( other than chicks, :rolleyes: ) What excites you? What is that something that excites you as a person, what is that something that you've been thinking about that really excites you? There's an inner thrill in you, something which that can truely delight you from artwork, sculpture, etc. There's sort of like having a sense of seeing it completed and theres a sense of purpose and fullfillment in all of that.

Yes you might say, " No I don't have the talent, to do this and that. I'm too " small", I'm too " weak", it is " impossible". But being excited about something is always the first step to making that something come true, once your excited about something the rest will just take care of itself.
 

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Roly, think of the DJ mindset... It endorses your claim to be inspired to get 'chicks' but it also encompasses further possibilites.

I hate church BS, it's all manipulative...the original hypnotism and mass fear inducer.

I myself feel that I am excited by everything. Hell I can make a girl wet by yelling at her, by pulling her hair, by being a ****, and by being the sweetest little kiss ass there is.

Nobody that comes to this site that can see the world past their nose will call themselves a loser, they will just say I don;t know enough yet. Simple as that, so stop FVCKING ASSUMING that people are naturally stupid and learn to grow. People are taught, they don't learn on their own. They are taught by nature and their surroundings until they are mature enough to begin exploring ideas in certain fields on their own.

Peple can be inspired by many things, I can be inspired by staring at the spackle on my ceiling and imagining the never ending field of connections I can make within 1cm... and that is only thinking about what I see. what I cannot, is another question, and I can write millions of pages on the subject.

Your teaching logic is wrong, as is my argument...

We have something to learn
 

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Very Insightful

Those are insightful words Boner, we all have something to learn and teach each other.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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