"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get inside an HB's Head

Tkman

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Step 1
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Get inside there heads !!!
Make them think about you !!!
Make them think about what you said !!!
Make them think about themselves !!!

Players play with there heads --- > Emotions.

Step 2
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You control what they think about it ... make sure it's something romantic/sexual/pleasent ----> Positive/Sexual Emotional Change.

Examples: AFC Vs Player
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HB:"Where do you work?"

AFC: "I am a Chef ....... "
Player:"I am a Hawaiian Pornstar .......... "

Chef ---> Cook, food, etc. (Not romantic/sexual/pleasent )
Hawaiian Pornstar ---> Sex, sex, sex.

HB:"Do you want to dance?"

AFC:"Yes, please now."
Player:"I dont know, can you handle me."

AFC -----> Desperate, etc
Player -----> Wild, Un-Desperate, etc.

HB:"Why dont you talk to me? are u a puzzy? (I got this one btw at a Club, she was drunk & crazy)

AFC:"Ummmm ... Ummmmmm ..... Sorry"
Player:"Please .... I only talk to girls who have the looks and can satisfy my Magic stick".

Do you see the difference?

As soon, as you go inside there heads ....... they will keep thinking about you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gav

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some nice c&f there man

something to add

AFC or normal boring person: "I am a Chef ....... "
Player:"I am a Hawaiian Pornstar .......... but i only do it for the
money...honest!"

It's best that c&f is taught as an attitude because then you can create your own c&f on the spot. Nevertheless, this sort of post gives examples which give guidance

ideally that attitude is something like "i'm the fvcking prize. i'm worth more than anyone else on this earth. what's so special about you that you think you deserve me? show me your skills. come on b!tch, dance for me". +a smirk when saying it
 
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