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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Get her wanting me

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1Italia0

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Hey guys,

So I had a long a$$ post on here one day and well to summarize it, I'm "talkin" to this girl. We have a lot of the same interests, enjoy texts and calls every day with eachother. I hit a rough spot with her just before she went on vacation, last week. I backed off her and well since we're facebook friends I made sure when I went out, to take multiple pics with attractive women, so she understands, I'm not sitting here waiting for her, well the truth is, I like this girl a LOT lol

If anyone on here seen my last post about her, I completely got over that, and she's been texting/sexting , says she misses me, today she texted me before she got on the plane, and it ended off with her saying, k I'll see you later! Now we didn't have any plans, and I didn't wanna look like I was jumping on the opportunity of seeing her, so I just said ok.

Well no calls/texts or anything since she got back. So either A this girl only wants to get laid, B she's extremely blasé, or I have no damn idea lol
But I'm growing old of texting all the time and never seeing her, once a week would be about the average, but it's usually a little over a week.
I want her to be the one initiating hanging out, which I have with other girls, but of course cause I actually like this one it's different lol
Any advice??
 

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Sounds to me like you wantsomething that you can't have. There are dozens of threads that start with the fundamental question of how do I get her to like me how do I get her interested. Alot of people just say next. Dude you cannot do anything to make her interested she either is or isn't. Based on her past behavior I say ask her out one time. Matter of fact don't ask just tell her you two need to go out and not a dinner and movie do something to get her out of her comfort zone and into yours. If she doesn't go forit or at least offer a counter offer just delete her number and move on. Always remember the more you chase the further you push her away. If she doesn't chase you find someone who will. Your talking to other women so you should be fine. This girl isn't the only one you will like so don't start putting her on a pedestal
 
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