"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get her to speak up during sex...

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OK, so I have a problem which I have never had before. Recently started banging my "friend". I have had sex with her twice. I have not made her come!! Every other girl I have fvcked, I can usually make come pretty quickly. Not to brag, but i have a huge d!ck!. I wear trojan magnum XL's for a condom, the others dont fit. Usually girls come so quick with me because they say "its so big it just hits every spot". Maybe because of this I never really built my skill up in the sac because I never had to try too hard? haha I dont know

With this girl it doesnt seem to be happening. She keeps telling me how it feels great etc... However, after fvcking for a while, I get bored with it!! Im tired and want to be done hahaa. A couple times I have said stuff to her like "whats the easiest way for you to get off and I'll do it?" She would never give me a straight answer, one time she said "I want you to get off, I will if you will". What the fvck does that mean???? We were talking about it after and she said "next time I will tell you".

I dont know what to do, maybe she is just being a little shy. Any tips or suggestions...I dont know what to do and its making me anxious!!

p.s. The first time she said we were too rushed and she couldnt...we both had somewhere to be so we had to try to do it fast so i understand. The second time we were going at it for at least 40 minutes, but then got interupted, so maybe it would have happened? I have not busted, it takes like 2 hours with a condom on!! I can tell she's into it and it feels good for her, lots of moaning and she's always down for more!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Okay that entire first paragraph was probably unnecessary, but to answer your question some girls just can't have orgasms very well, and maybe this girl is insecure about it if that is the case.
 
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dude...wtf is wrong with you... I never care if she comes or not.. I just spend some time hitting it, smack her as.s... tell her something stupid like "you like that dck dont you... or, you like sucking it dont you.." and then I bust a nut.. i.e.. to get a girl hooked you dont need to make her ***... if you trying to make her *** too much it makes it seem that your interested in her more then she is in you... what ever dude... just hit it..and smack her in the face with your big shlung man.. and tell her "baby you better fake it next time, or im gonna smack you harder" ;)
 
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