Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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get her to shave

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Been with this girl for about a month. Recently went down on her only to find out she wasn't shaven. Now it wasn't a jungle, it was trimmed, but there was still a considerable amount of hair. It looked as if she just trimmed it witha buzzer...still too much hair for me!

She is VERY shy. She gets embarassed talking about anything sexual. How should I bring this up to her that I would like if she shaved? I do not want to embarass her or turn her off or whatever. I just want to do this the easiest way possible and not make her uncomfortable because she gets uncomfortable easily.

Any ideas?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deadly_Assassin

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how about you play a little game with her ( obviously when the two of you are together and in sexual mood ). And end of the game say if she wins she can get away with doing anything she wants with you, and if you win you have your way with her? And hopefully if you win, you can take the opportunity to shave her?
 

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Tell her that you want to go down on her and give her pleasure but you have a thing about hair. If she shaves it off you will make her a VERY happy woman. :yes:
 

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Say you like going down on her but the hair gets in the way and gets in your mouth. Advise her to shave or wax it. Then you can pleasure her better. :up:

Tell her it looks more sexy too.
 

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"I want you... Shaved!"




Advise her to shave or wax it.
Waxing pubic hair makes my eyes go :eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I dare you to buy her an Epilady and tell her to use that...really...I DOUBLE dare you.
 

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Wyldfire said:
I dare you to buy her an Epilady and tell her to use that...really...I DOUBLE dare you.
:crackup: Go for it! :rock:
 

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Moved to AE...

From my experience, there's really no easy way to bring this up if she's that shy about her sexuality. The best thing you could do would be to tell her in as friendly a way as possible that you'd appreciate there being less hair down there. If you want, you could turn it around on yourself to make a point to her... perhaps by saying "Would you like it better if I groomed down there?" (assuming you don't... which you should definitely already be doing anyway)... after which you could go on about how you've heard lots of people are doing it now, and that you really enjoy a girl who's clean-shaven.

Either that or give her a gift of one of those waxing kits that has the pre-cut designs, which she just heats up, applies, and rips off... though you may want to give her a cheap pair of trimmers along with it for the remaining hair. She'll get the hint.
 

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Honestly...I'm the same way about hairy balls. You gotta shave those puppies because they shed and it's really gross. Seriously...

Get yourself one of those Epilady's on Ebay...they work really good...honest...you can trust me...I promise.

*evil laugh*
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wyldfire said:
Honestly...I'm the same way about hairy balls. You gotta shave those puppies because they shed and it's really gross. Seriously...
umm no.
 

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chicken...
 

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It's really a lot easier than you think. Just buy some single blade displosables and do it in the shower every other day. I don't get any extra ichiness and I've never cut myself.
 

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Wyldfire said:
Honestly...I'm the same way about hairy balls. You gotta shave those puppies because they shed and it's really gross. Seriously...

Get yourself one of those Epilady's on Ebay...they work really good...honest...you can trust me...I promise.

*evil laugh*
For a 40 year old woman you sure are clueless about balls and such.
 

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Eulogy said:
For a 40 year old woman you sure are clueless about balls and such.
Actually, I'm rather knowledgeable about balls.

Tell me, when was the last time you had your face next to a set and got a ball hair on the back of your tongue?

Yeah...that's what I thought.

You can be quiet now. :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thanks for the replies...

I guess I will just try to do it as nice as possible..."i love going down on you, but it would be much better with less hair" I mean comeo n, this is 2006, who the hell doesn't shave their snatch anymore?

Either that or i will attempt to shave it while she is sleeping haha
 

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tell her its easier for you when its shaved.
it usually only needs to be said once, girls are very self conscious and once they are told, they keep it cleaned to avoid it being brought up again
 

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I dropped hints to my ex (before she was my ex...lol) by leaving a few copies of "Shaved" magazine and some playboy's laying around that were open to some "interesting" images... At least the topic came up... She asked me if that was something I was trying to get her into? I said yep! She did...And now someone else is enjoying all my hard work......lol
 

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My gf was shaved when I met her and I said I liked a little hair, so she grew it. Shaved ones remind me of plucked chickens.

I wouldn't flat out ask her to shave, and I definitely wouldn't act like it's an issue. Just ask her after sex how she keeps trim, has she ever shaved it, etc (while kissing it, ideally), and take it from there.
 
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