"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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get her to call you?

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Hey people,

I am wondering if anyone knows any good ways to get the chicks to call you instead of you calling them. I have plenty of chicks numbers and they have mine but i'm always the one calling all the time. Any tips are appriciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JSH

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its appreciated :D theres a tip,


raise her IL in you so much that she cant get enough and therefore needs to phone you.
 

LikRetsam

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Why do you care?
 

SikWitIt

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Yea just ask them to call you i called sum chick to see what she was doing, She didnt answer and i got the voicemail so i asked to her to call me.


Omg and guess what she did!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MidwestFreek

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or tell her to call u..but dont make it seem like a command...

just be like

hey..im free for a bit tonite...call me round so n so..i should be home
 

tactic

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She calls you because she is very interested.
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by tactic
She calls you because she is very interested.
That is true for when they call you and you havn't told them to.
 
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