"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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get alot of numbers but never hang out!!! HELP

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hey guys listen i know im really good lookin and dont really have a problem getting phone numbers.. my problem is i can get them but for some reason the girls never hang out.. i am very frustrated as it seems to always be a waste of time.. im not looking for a girlfriend but still most guys that i know will hang out with alot of new girls.. i think im better looking then them and a better catch but for some reason i struggle to hango ut... Do i need to build up more physical attraction from when we first meet like at a club by talking more? Am i doing somethin wrong on the phone? normally i will just call them see whats up tlak for like 10-15 minutes for the first conversation, then see if they want to hang out like in the week or soemthing what do you guys usually do??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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meet girls in other places than clubs. Lets face it dude, clubs suck. You can't talk, the floor is sticky, and girls have their b*tch shields way high. Unless you are having a great night and are totally on, they won't respond.

Also, they put you in the 'club guy' category. Which sucks.

Meet girls in other places. supermarkets, the bank, on the street, school, etc.
 
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Posting your pic wont achieve anything.. here is some things that might help. Take it or leave it:

1. Call within 3 days, not after 3 days. Every day that passes they forget about you a little more and stand a chance of meeting someone new
2. Dont talk for 15-20 mins. Talk for 3-4 minutes, then set up the time you 2want to meet and say you have to bounce. If they reject your suggestion to go somewhere, then act like it didnt happen, talk for 5-10 mins more and get them in a happy state liking you, then suggest somewhere else. If it doesnt work again then just bounce
3. DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. Girls are flaky creature, flakes in the beginning are expected when you are calibrating your game. If you know someone that does not get flaked on, good for them, but you gettin flaked on is not a reflection on you, just your game and its need for calibration
4. Club girls are the flakiest of the bunch, try and close that day as opposed to chasin her later on in the week. This does not apply to all club girls, but I like to think a high percentage because on any given night there seems to be majority regulars and a couple out of towners/people new to the scene. Therefore they tend to play more games and bullsh!t you because they've had to weed out AFCs or unworthy guys this way.
5. Get more rapport or build more attraction. Rapport as in having a sh!t load of stuff in common and her thinking you are a great guy will make her want the longterm thing and await by the phone, whilst attraction by being ****y/funny, that main dude in the club, dressed to impress, handsome, w/e will get you 1-3 days attraction before it slowly wanes out. You dont want a wifey, so I would say build more attraction and just focus on closing better.
 
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