"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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get a zippo and learn tricks

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great conversation starter i read david Ds book and in it he said women ask him for a light allt he time and he always said sorry i dont smoke but then realized a flashy lighter is a great conversation starter..... well it is ive had a zippo for a long time from back in my smoking days and just recently i downloaded a book on zippo lighter tricks. havent tried it on the field yet but i think a cool flashy trick would be a great conversation starter
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this is a gimmick. dont do it to impress girls just do it if you're into some stupid ass lighter tricks.
 

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not really if u do a simple trick that seems as if you werent trying and its just something youdo,chances are THEY will ask you if you can do anything else
 
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good for opening

just dont turn into a trick monkey
 

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congrats. One can be a entertainment dancing monkey soon.

This is a gimmick, you are learning to do a trick in order to impress some girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i stated at the start of the post to use it as a conversation starter im not gonna pull it out and do flashy things and grin and say howd you like that huh ? im not a f...ing chump i simply meant make it look simple and the chances are she will say what else can you do that way yyour not showing off u guys are perceiving it differently to me
 

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Haha, whip out your cigarette, put some fuel in your hand, have the cigarette just over the hand and letter rip :D

Fireball on hand + Lit cigarette!
Bling!
 
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