"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey people, i have not tried this yet, but heres an idea if u think ur REALLY suave and smooth with girls.....


Thefacebook.com - a website where practically every single college girl in the country has a profile. If you live near a college, you have 100s of girls to talk to instantly, and heres the kicker.

THIS IS THE BEST THING ANY OF U WILL EVER SEE...................................

Id say more than 80% of these girls WRITE THEIR CELL #s IN THEIR PROFILE....i dunno why, i feel its stupid, but they do, so heres a challenge for whoever thinks hes REAL smooth -

1)go to thefacebook.com (only if ur between 18 and 25, dont b some 35 year old perve hittin on college girls).

2)get as many #s as u want and add them to ur phone book

3)cold call each and every one of them simply sayin u got the # off of facebook and take the convo from there (some will deff be creeped out, but others may be friendly, especially if you can show them your profile or something (with pics).....

if u ask me, if ur bad at # closing then screw it, dont get #s, they are all there already on thefacebook waiting to be dialed LOL

HOW SUAVE ARE YOU GUYS? WHOS GONNA TRY THIS?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THAT YOU DO NOT CALL CHICKS OUT OF NO WHERE THAT YOU HAVE NEVER HAD ANY TYPE OF CONVERSATION WITH. You will come off as creepy and weird. At least try to get them to add you as a "friend" or something along those lines,then perhaps you should try to call.
 

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everybody, let me make something clear:

i DO NOT recommend any one do this as their approach to gettin with girls,

all i was saying is that this could be a FUN CHALLENGE for anyone out there who thinks they r pimp enough....and hey BLINKWAT, its no big deal if 90% of girls get creeped out and the other 10% end up ****ing u....ill take those odds any day lol (but i never have tried this cold calling thing b4 lol)
 

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Originally posted by skip2mylou781
everybody, let me make something clear:

i DO NOT recommend any one do this as their approach to gettin with girls,

all i was saying is that this could be a FUN CHALLENGE for anyone out there who thinks they r pimp enough....and hey BLINKWAT, its no big deal if 90% of girls get creeped out and the other 10% end up ****ing u....ill take those odds any day lol (but i never have tried this cold calling thing b4 lol)
You would take those odds? You said you slept with 25 girls last year so if you are doign so good why would you take 1 in 10 odds?
 

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has anyone ever told u its a #s game? i got laid overall like 45 times, but to get there, id say ive met and hit on prob well over 500 girls..........yea those odds are good trust me....cuz out of 10 good looking/hot girls, if 1 wants to ****, then i say thats a success rite there, but lemme reiterate, this thefacebook.com thing, its just a CHALLENGE for whoever thinks they smooth enough



dude id hit on every good looking girl i see, whether its at a club or online, and yes, even if its 1 outta ****in 50 odds, if i hit on 50 girls in 3 days, and i get layed by 1 cutie, then hey, thats fine with me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If your success rate is 1 in 10 why the f*ck are you giving advice lol?

Try to get it up to 7-9/10 like me and a lot of the experienced guys on this site then you can start giving advice.

Till then just shut up, listen and if you really must you can ask questions.
 

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I could just imagine the buck-toothed redneck hose beast that would actually talk to someone that cold called them and go on a date.

wow... you really are hard-up dude.
 

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it might work but its a b*tch move, get a life and hit up a club
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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y is this not clear? i said I NEVER DID THIS BEFORE, and its a CHALLENGE CHALLENGE CHALLENGE to someone who thinks they r so smooth that they can actually try this and see if it works, cuz theres no stoppin a full out pimp rite?

and a question to Levethian....since ur success rate is sooo high, how many girls u ****ed so far in ur life?
 

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I find it childish posting the number of girls I have ****ed in my life. It's not any of your business.

What you need to do is.

Stop giving useless advice.

You say your success rate is 1 in 10 that means you got a lot to learn.

You have no place giving advice (especially useless advice) when your success rate is so low.
 

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Hmmm... The best use of smoothness you could probably do here is tell the girl you saw her number on face book chat for a bit then tell her to check out your page. In a situation like this, that'd be your best shot at sucess. It doesn't matter how much of a pimp you are, you can't cold call random girls on a website and expect to sell them out of their panties...Unless the girl was REALLY desprate and hard up for some GD which i bet some of them are. Finding those girls is definately a hit or miss type situation but with some good detective work and cognitive though reading their page, you could better your odds some what.

All in all though, the time you could be spending on this, could be time spent out in the field where there are real girls and where you can build the only exprience that really counts for anybody and that's face time.
 

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i doubt anybody here, or in the PUA community can pull this off. it's a little farfetched.

although simply talking to girls on facebook works. their profile shows you what they like and what you can tease them about. it's pretty damn easy actually.

i made a date with this cute girl i found and messaged on facebook. took about 2 weeks to get it going but i did it.
 

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It's not a challenge, it's just silly.

Whatever happened to quality over quantity?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol of course its just silly......but damn if some guy got a date by callin a random facebook girl, id consider him PIMP, wouldnt u? (a random good looking girl that is, not ugly 1)
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
lol of course its just silly......but damn if some guy got a date by callin a random facebook girl, id consider him PIMP, wouldnt u? (a random good looking girl that is, not ugly 1)
I wouldn't. I'd just call him someone who scored a date.

Being a pimp isn't an act, it's a habit.
 

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DUDE someone who could cold call a random cutie and get a date with her INDEED does have the skills to be a pimp (at least if him in-person game is congruent to his phone game)
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
DUDE someone who could cold call a random cutie and get a date with her INDEED does have the skills to be a pimp (at least if him in-person game is congruent to his phone game)
I agree with the difference between phone/net game and real game.

Of course someone with above-average game deserves praise, and perhaps a label or two. But in my eyes, a man isn't a bonafide pimp until he can show complete and utter consistency at a high level.

Maybe it's just me, but compliments and ego-boosters are given out far too easily these days :rolleyes:
 

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if i told u that i fvck 1/3 girls i go on a date with, all averaging hb7, would u call that "consistant"?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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