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German Girl staying with me - Need advice

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Crissco

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Posted this in the MM section also, since this is a bigger group of people in this section, thought i would try my luck here also.


I decided to try CouchSurfing...A 21 y/o german girl eneded up messaging me with a place to stay because my place is right by her school. We talked on an off, playful banter, even sexual talk, on Facebook for about 2-3 weeks, building up rapport.

She arrived here 2 days ago. She leaves in 3 days. Im used to getting the lay the first night, 99.9% of the time. This one is stumping me a bit. She is very hard headed, stubborn, conservative, get stressed easy..But I can tell she is a complete freak(FB pictures, pictures she sent, talks we had) - The first night she was here, we hung out in her bed, massages, ear kisses, small stuff like that, her nipples where extremely hard when i ran my hand over it lightly, she pulled my hand away...Also..Every time i went for the kiss, she pulled away. Night goes on, kiss her on the lips and say good night, she kept her lips closed. I would pull away, act indifferent then she would come up behind me, give me a hug, kiss me on the neck.

I made my moves that night, but not full force because i know she is staying here for 5 days and it would of been awkward for her. She even mentioned something about sex, that she doesnt want the "shame of seeing my dads face the next morning" - Typical remorse and walk of shame feeling. Understandable, ive been through that tons of times (ONS)

Shes never been here before, so naturally you would think she doesnt know how to get around the bus system. She took the bus to school, on the way back she took the early bus, without telling me, she told me the bus shes taking to get back, which isnt the correct bus to get to my town..She failed to mention shes taking a second one. I got a little worried because if something was to happen, it would be sh*ts creek. This is her stubborness/games/Independence kicking in. She made it back safe, but they i tried to explain to her, I need a heads up. Naturally she fought against it, being the "Im a woman hear me roar speel bulls*hit*

Anyway..Last night she mentioned us going out to dinner tonight, i suggested cooking at home together. My issue also is her through, its swelling up like she is getting sick, my guess is from the cigarette smoke in my house. I have some wine, some food. I have 3 days left to do this, unless she decides to stay for the next 5 days until her plane back. Only way that is to happen is to bang her like a God and make her have the fear of loss.

Kind of stumped here guys

Anyone been with girls from Germany and can give me advice here?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Set an useless insecure boundary with her.

Just kidding.

Learn something about having value.

She has more value than you.

She is not listening to what you say.

Don't be put in a positon to be rejected sexually.

Sexual talks is not the same as having sex.

This is your home. Act like it. If you want to cook then cook.

It doesn't matter that she is German.

Women are women and will take advantage of betas.

Is she smoking in your house?

This couchsurfing thing sounds like something for betas to use.

A fear of loss?

She has more value than you.

She is only going to have sex with you if she wants to.

Initiating to be rejected won't help you.

When she is ignoring what you are telling her the sex is not likely to occur.

Establish some value first before you even think of getting laid.

The clock is ticking!
 

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Couchsurfing is not for betas dude. It's just a supplement I my online and day game. Couchsurfing sites have pretty damn hot girls man. I meet new people, new connections. I can't complain. And of course I do what I want in my home. That's always a given. But with this girl. I just don't think shes fully interested. Push pull works for me, only if she's in the right mood. Now she's getting sick on top of it. I don't see this one happening. I've been with a lot of girls, after a while you just know if it's gonna happen or its not. Figured I would post here to see your opinions, of course im going to keep trying though. If I bang her awesome. I don't, no big deal.
 

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I guess you are the one who is smoking.


Crissco said:
Couchsurfing is not for betas dude. It's just a supplement I my online and day game. Couchsurfing sites have pretty damn hot girls man. I meet new people, new connections. I can't complain. And of course I do what I want in my home. That's always a given. But with this girl. I just don't think shes fully interested. Push pull works for me, only if she's in the right mood. Now she's getting sick on top of it. I don't see this one happening. I've been with a lot of girls, after a while you just know if it's gonna happen or its not. Figured I would post here to see your opinions, of course im going to keep trying though. If I bang her awesome. I don't, no big deal.

Of course it is beta. How can you say it is not?

How many alphas do you know of opening their door to foreign women not getting laid?

She is getting free room and board plus meals all provided by you along with her attitude not taking you seriously.

You call that being an Alpha?

That is being a beta being taken advantage of.

Supplement is code for I'm not getting any from day and night game. The reason for using alternatives like couch surfing.

Men with tight day and night game don't need alternative supplements. They already have enough women to keep them occupied without having to lower their standards.

Why fight it when she isn't interested?

Getting rejected from your sexual advances doesn't help matters any.

What good is having pretty damn hot women on the sites when nothing sexual occurs?

This is all a waste of time as far as I'm concerned.

You have to put up with her being sick and taking care of a woman with an attitude without getting laid.

That isn't beta to you?

This system sounds like the perfect way for females to keep their entitlement.

Having some beta provide everything for her in hopes of him getting laid.

What is this world coming to?
 

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Agreed this guy is a beta provider trying to get a lay because he's doing something for her. This kind of thing is creepy at best.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Soolaimon said:
I guess you are the one who is smoking.





Of course it is beta. How can you say it is not?

How many alphas do you know of opening their door to foreign women not getting laid?

She is getting free room and board plus meals all provided by you along with her attitude not taking you seriously.

You call that being an Alpha?

That is being a beta being taken advantage of.

Supplement is code for I'm not getting any from day and night game. The reason for using alternatives like couch surfing.

Men with tight day and night game don't need alternative supplements. They already have enough women to keep them occupied without having to lower their standards.

Why fight it when she isn't interested?

Getting rejected from your sexual advances doesn't help matters any.

What good is having pretty damn hot women on the sites when nothing sexual occurs?

This is all a waste of time as far as I'm concerned.

You have to put up with her being sick and taking care of a woman with an attitude without getting laid.

That isn't beta to you?

This system sounds like the perfect way for females to keep their entitlement.

Having some beta provide everything for her in hopes of him getting laid.

What is this world coming to?
I took the using the couchsurfing site as beta. I took it wrong. Shes not getting free meals, rides or anything, she takes the bus, pays her food. Nor am i taking care of her.

I have over 100 lays from dating sites and online game in the past 4 years. It took me 6 months to have to down a solid routine i would use...This is whole new situation for me. Yea my night games sucks dude, its not for everyone, daygame is getting there slowing, and i actually love doing daygame, perfer it over online game. I run a business from home, online is just a little easier for me and less time consuming. Its called working smart. I would rather work and make money the bang girls all day. Im not gonna start with I had X amount over a day or week, i dont have to prove anything.

Like i always do, and have been since 2009. I came here for advice, not to have an a*shole starting throw sh*t at me.

EDIT:2014 join date. Makes sense now.

"Agreed this guy is a beta provider trying to get a lay because he's doing something for her. This kind of thing is creepy at best."
Alpha and beta are thrown around way to much on this site.99% of the time i pull it off. Like i just said in the previous paragraph this is new to me, I pulled it off wrong. Big f*cking deal. I came here for advice, like every other guy does on this site. To improve.
 

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Tictac said:
Don't sweat Foolaimon Crissco.

He thinks he knows something.

His/her posts are funny.
Is what it is, ive done well for my self, make 180 deg turn in life, im not complaining. Kid seems a little messed up, but who am i judge. Just here for advice.


MOD please lock this thread in this section. Im not here for an argument or flame war.
 
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