"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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george clooney should be your role model

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One of Clooney's best assets is the fact that he's disarming. He seems very approachable and friendly. That's why he made a lousy Batman. Because he was too nice. He wasn't dark and broody enough. But this makes him very charismatic in interpersonal interactions. And charisma will get you everywhere.

Bill Maher is actually a great person to contrast him with because Maher has zero charisma. He's very negative and judgmental and condescending. I'd be willing to bet that even with his recent star on the walk of fame he probably still doesn't get much action.



TIC said:
Taylor Lautner, Robert Patterson, Zack Efron, etc, also can fck 99% of women on the planet....please understand it isn't because of their amazing acting skills or personalities....its because they are the cream of the crop in looks.
I have to disagree with this, My ex-girlfriend had a huge crush on Robert Pattinson and she was the first to admit that he looked like he got hit in the face with a shovel (her words, not mine). A lot of women typically fall in love with him via the character of Edward Cullen because he's so absurdly protective. It triggers white night fantasies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backbreaker said:
Believe it or not, I just bought netflix yesterday lol for the first time ever. I downloaded everything I want, I said screw it why not. was looking for a moving to watch, i will watch this.
I think the one thing to take away from it is the sense of versatility and coolness/adaptability under pressure. As if even when things outside their control go completely awry, they know they will still make it work just by virtue of them being THAT good at what they do.

You couldn't see Danny Ocean flipping out over a woman asking him to open a car door. ;)
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
One of Clooney's best assets is the fact that he's disarming. He seems very approachable and friendly. That's why he made a lousy Batman. Because he was too nice. He wasn't dark and broody enough. But this makes him very charismatic in interpersonal interactions.
I agree! That´s why Christian Bale is so badass as Batman. He´s as stuck up as batman is. They fit very well. :rockon:

Joker: "Why so serious?"
 
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