"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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genuine bpd chick!!

Albatross953

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So I met this woman, ten years younger, tall, hot. Body like an olympic gymnast. She throws me all kind of interest, but I've got plates so I don't respond right away. She asks me to come over and make dinner and while I'm there she gives me all the signs...distant dad, work and life troubles.

As I'm cooking, she opens cupboard and there they are, real honest to god pill bottles. Three kinds of bipolar drugs. No kidding...I almost laughed out loud.

I got the funk out of there without banging her, now she's chasing. Buckle up!! I'm tempted to hit it...I know a really bad idea. Not your run of the mill bat sh crazy!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what's wrong with banging BPD girls?
i thought the point was to not get attached to them.

i would've grabbed half those pills when she was asleep and sold them to my friends.
 

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There is a huge difference between BPD and bipolar disorder...
 

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Bi polar is a chemical imbalance in the brain that is treated with medication (extremely treatble) BPD aka boarderline personality disorder is a PERSONALITY DISORDER whihc is is treated with therapy not medication, and nothing i guranteed. you have them mixed up...I know people with Bi polar disorder and you wouldnt even know as most women i met with BPD i knew pretty quickly...
 
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