VikingKing
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Jesus. Need to quit drinking.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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- Thread starter VikingKing
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nice thread. I like the general message behind it.
I see it the same as well - If you feel the need to form a thread on "how to deal with a women", then you simply need to drop the worry and deal with yourself first. Asking for someone's opinion is no different from learning pathetic "chat up lines" - eventually you will crash, fail & look stupid. Your mindset is where it's all at.
I see it the same as well - If you feel the need to form a thread on "how to deal with a women", then you simply need to drop the worry and deal with yourself first. Asking for someone's opinion is no different from learning pathetic "chat up lines" - eventually you will crash, fail & look stupid. Your mindset is where it's all at.
VikingKing
Banned
Sound like one. But sociopaths don't care about how they affect people, i do.JoeMarron said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VikingKing
Banned
Because I was sloppy drunk.adam225 said: