“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gentlemen, this is my one golden tip for you...

New2Town

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Gentlemen, open your ears and minds for what I am about to say. It's not Earth-shattering information, but still, few men know the importance of this skill.

It will make a woman beg for you sexually when you haven't been around her in a while. Hell, it's worked to even make a woman beg for me when I've never even met her.

It's simple: You need to turn the conversation sexual as early as you can.

I have found great success doing this on the phone, as it's one of the easiest ways of communication, if you have phone game. Do not try this unless you have perfected the art of phone game.

The last thing you want to come across as is creepy or not confident. Women breathe in a guy's confidence and perspire his sexuality.

When you call, have a short conversation at first, the normal fluff. DO NOT talk about anything serious up until this point. This should also be one of your first two conversations with this woman.

When you are confident she is buying into you and she has established herself as good enough to get to spend time with you (remember, you are the prize), time to drop the bomb.

“Hey, I think there are three levels of chemistry in a relationship and I want you to rate them – physical, emotional and sexual.” - or you can use any variation of this you want.

I usually get a quick silence after this question followed by a “You know, I never really thought about it, but...”

Once she ranks them, base your answer on how she ranked them. What does she put a priority on?

Chances are, if she's not shallow, she will go emotional, sexual and physical. Or, if she's comfortable with her sexuality, she'll say sexual, emotional and physical.

You already have her thinking about it, so transition into the conversation by saying “Yeah, I know of so many people who try to base a relationship on sex and it doesn't work. It would be nice to go at it like jackrabbits all day, but eventually you need to connect with the person.”

You should know what to talk about following this. If she's not open to talking about her sexuality, back off and come back to it.

Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day, but you can make her wet in a minute.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Jon55

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Making the conversation sexual can be done very easily while being very subtly. I do this all the time. It actually takes less effort than you'd think. If you're completely clueless as to how a typical conversation with sexual undertones sounds, go watch James Bond. Yes, he's a very exaggerated example, but it gets the point across.
 

zzeitgeist

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I am going to agree that being sexual around her as soon as you established basic rapport is very important. In fact I have only recently realized how well this works in your favor. Remember to keep it playful, what I am working on right now is transferring this over from phone/msn/facebook to real life situation more smoothly, so there is no disruption in confidence.
 
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