"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yomismo

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Guys,
this is a continuation from my previous story.
Girlfriend comes back and sends me hotel booking and credit card charges to show me she and her child were sleeping in different hotel than ex.
All cool till there.
Then she gets pissed cause i didnt reply to her emails during NYE and didnt call her (I was out with friends!).
So she doesnt call or email neither do i.
I twisted my arm and called her asking her to come over during the weekend.She says yes but then changes her mind and confesses she still pissed.
Emails back and forth and then she emails that she wants to stop our relationship (she is jealous of so many women around me and confesses she always wanted to be my previous love...WTF!!?? ).
She ignores my emails but then i get reply agreeing to meet for a coffee in her town.She is pissed and jealous.
Guys, I need advise on how to handle the meeting and if possible to recover the upper hand. All help is highly appreciated!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stop whining.
 
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StormScar

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Stop dating a jealous attention *****... I don't get why so many guys do it, when there is so much fish in the pond.
 
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You don't need this drama in your life do you?
There are lots of women out there who are single and attractive.
 
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yomismo

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Gonna give her last attempt or i walk out...I can understand jealousy but not to this extreme, really.
She got to know about so many women chasing me and she lost her cool, completly!!!
I didnt cheat on her but Im running out of patience also.
Any advise on how to run the conversation ? I dont like ultimatums, not one bit
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dude, if you don't like spending time with her and such, why do you work so hard to keep her? Just move on... and she has a kid? damnit.
 
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