"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Genital Herpes...

Moofahsa

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I finally found a girl I was/am thinkin of long terming it with.

She wouldn't put out, which was weird because she was be all into it and suddenly stop and say "don't touch me"

Anyway, long story short I finally got it out of her that she has genital herpes and doesn't want to give it to me.

Do I move on or work it out? I don't know, the std isn't that serious...but then again you know...

Someone reason with me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moofahsa said:
I don't know, the std isn't that serious...but then again you know...
Open sores on your d1ck for the rest of your life isn't serious?
 

Sandow

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I would hate to know what IS serious then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skel

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why the **** would you want to work it out with a girl who has herpes?
 

Blackmm

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Don't fall for that crap in the Valtrex commercials. Those couples AREN'T that happy being together. RUN Forrest!!
 

Randallpink83

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I don't know much about herpes... but isnt it only passable if she is having an outbreak? ...which I thought can go long periods without an outbreak...

i don't know... do some research about it... and yeah it sucks but I would move on, cause it is serious.
 

Ken785

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dont be desperate bro...i dont care if its muthafvckin Jessica Alba..if she has herpes you better move on...she was cool enough to let you know and not fvck you over like a lot of b!tches would, now you need to be cool enough to kindly excuse yourself and move on...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Someone Much cooler

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yeah she is enjoying you for the time being but she is keepin it real, she is sayin "leave me befor i condemn you to the same fate" Idiot.
 

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YO i think you should talk it over with her since u want to work it out..Maybe she can give it to you and you both can share your herpes together?
LOL jk get the **** outa that relationship and fast!!
 

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chances are that you will catch it if you date her long term.
then what happens when you break up?
will you be forced to tell every new prospect that you have the cooties?

no one ever told me they had herpes to give away, and no one asked me if i wanted them....
what happened was, information was not disclosed because someone felt that it was embarrassing and a ticket breaker, and therefore i caught them without warning.
but you, you have fair warning, you do not owe anyone anything, think it through and do what you need to do for yourself and for your own future.
 

Gangster Of Love

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1 out of 4 women has genital herpes, and most of them don't even know it because they don't have symptoms, never had an outbreak, etc.

So all of you freakin' out over this particular one, there is a 25% that any new woman you sleep with is infected and doesn't even know it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bible_Belt

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I was married for 7 years to a woman who had genital herpes, and I never got it. Before an outbreak, she will feel a tingling, and then you don't have sex until it has passed. The drug Famvir helps a lot as a daily preventative.

Remember that condoms don't help much with herpes. You have some thinking to do. My wife did not figure out what she had until after we were already together, she had one undiagnosed outbreak years ago, and then started getting them again. I almost left her over it. It's your call.
 

moto

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How do these chicks get herpes?

And what if she did not tell you......would you be able to tell she has herpes or not?

This is serious stuff
 

Lord Shinra

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If you have thoughts about not nexting her, then dont sleep with her ( I know, easier said).

But really think about it, you can talk and have a LJBF kind of thing, or you could play russian roulette.

Like Bible Belt said, its your call.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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