"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Generation Gap from Hell

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Has anyone stopped to observe the sheer irony between the fact that Generation Snowflake is the most easily offended while their parents Generation X is easily the most offensive generation? Twenty years ago we'd say things like "Hey assh*le, I said pass the f*cking peas, moron!" and nobody ever batted an eye. We just talked like that.

And you know Generation Snowflake, they say things like "I have a right to see a movie so you have no right to have your Second Amendment right", and they call the police when they see "Trump" written in chalk on the sidewalk. But they are not passive, pathetic wimps. They are vindictive, sneaky, active pathetic wimps. They start Twitter outrage mobs and ruin the careers of Nobel Prize winning scientists. They have been called Cry Bullies.

It occurred to me that this extreme change between consecutive generations is no coincidence. It came about by our own design. Generation Snowflake was the first generation raised by single mothers. Those are the women who didn't want relationships in '90's, but chose the "hang out hook up culture" and became HPV carrying bar slvts who then left their men, went on welfare, and raised their children to be special snowflakes while training them that everything their fathers did should be made illegal.

Needless to say, this Generation Gap makes for especially interesting dating between older men and younger women. And oh, the irony when strippers talk about the gender pay gap.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IMO, this actually helps contribute to today's young women dating older men. Being abrasive and brutally honest is in our (GenX's) blood and it's a very attractive trait to women. Today's men and mean whiners. NOBODY like a mean whiner.

GenX really experienced the push to empower women, and we did that. Female-led grunge bands and Grrl Power pushed things over the top, and now we're dealing with the results from it. Generation Snowflake is pushing for the empowerment of LGBT. The result could either be the decline of our species, or a backlash against such anti-natural ways of breeding humans, or even both.
 

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I'm on the cusp of both generations. Also, agree with desd, women love the dead honesty. No better turn on for them. Be born with it or learn it

The one thing that comes to mind is this whole "sending risky texts," ****. What in God's name is a risky text?! Saying you want to shove your face in her party pillows a risky text or asking her out is apparently a risky text. Bunch of little girls in boy's bodies these days
 

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What a victory for us men who were abandoned by women our age in the 1990's to come back 25 years later and seduce their daughters!
 

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And the sad reality is, Desdinova's 22 year old gf will age faster than him also.

I was 41 when I met my then dream girl (age 19). By the time she hit 21 I had lost interest because she had gained so much weight.

I know girls who are 20 who have already noticeably gone downhill in the past 6 months.

Ages ago, women became sexually active at age 15, so if they were still hot at age 20 they would have had 4 kids. It's rare to find girls who age like Meg Ryan, who in When Harry Met Sally (1989) was 27 (Billy Crystal was 41 - this is a great chick flick for guys to enjoy btw), and in Sleepless in Seattle (1993) was 31 (not that great of a movie IMO but she was still beautiful).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would not date anyone from my high school days, not attractive, overweight, entitled and leathery... many have hit me up on FB for example.
Here in Europe however are TONS of women 38-44 that are simply outstanding HB8-9
Smooth skin, not fat, no muffin tops and no entitlement attitude.
 
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