"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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general situations how to deal with them?

lamobatsman

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1) you have been speaking to a girl via text or fb chat etc. she doesnt really answer back or reply to anything you have written in that text.
she messages you the next day just saying "hey"

how do you play situations like this?

2) you phone a girl but everytime she answers back in text or says sorry i missed your call, then proceeds to have a conversation on text.
how do you play this?

are these signs of attention *****s?

3) if you set up a date with someone, do you remind them the night before or a few hours before of it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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1. Make a thread on Sosuave.net asking for advice

2. Make a thread on Sosuave.net asking for advice

3. Make a thread on Sosuave.net asking for advice
 

DragonBlood

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These are signs and causes of low interest. Also chatting on fb until she gets bored with no direction and texting to confirm date are serious AFC.
 
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