"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JayCee23

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Haven't posted in a while, just came back to get some tips etc.

I got the bodyweight training book 'Never Gymless' for xmas, and I think I'm going to switch around my routines to bodyweight training, looks good.

okay that was very off topic but what the hell..

1. My diet and training is for fat loss and muscle gain, the results have come slowly but surely.. I eat chicken, turkey, eggs, salmon, lots of veggies and fruits and try to drink alot of water.. I want to try ground beef, I haven't touched it before because I heard red meat stays inside you for aaages and increases chances of cancer etc. but then I've heard upsides of course. I just want to know if someone knows how to include red meat (thinking ground beef here..) in a diet that cuts fat and promotes muscle growth?

2. At school I can't eat that great, they put out ****ty lunches (white bread etc., low grade processed meats.. yuck) so I bring in two turkey sandwiches on wholegrain bread, is there a healthier alternative?

3. Any other tips for a teen who wants to lose fat and put on muscle?

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The negative effects of red meat come mostly from the fat in it. If you are concerned about it, try to get the leanest cuts of meat that are available to you.

Have you cut out most refined carbs and sugar? Are you doing any cardio?
 

JayCee23

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Bible_Belt said:
The negative effects of red meat come mostly from the fat in it. If you are concerned about it, try to get the leanest cuts of meat that are available to you.

Have you cut out most refined carbs and sugar? Are you doing any cardio?
I barely if ever eat refined carbs or sugary sweet foods etc. I only cheat for like.. 1 meal on a saturday and then its back to being healthy.

I am doing cardio, I wear a rucksack filled with 20kg and do stepups with that in my workouts..

also

I just recently made a 25kg sandbag, does anyone else incorporate the use of a sandbag into their routines? and what exercises can they recommend?

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ground beef won't kill you. you're right to avoid processed lunch meats. all the studies on "red meat" and cancer, etc. lump all that stuff together, so they're useless for telling you what's wrong with beef (hint: nothing).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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