"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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General question, slap up side the head?

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Dole

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A guy that is my friend likes to touch the top of my head when I am sitting down and he is standing next to me (I have a short buzz haircut). He either rubs top of my head or he taps it lightly with his hand like a drum. He did slap me behind the head once when I said something stupid... I am actually getting annoyed by this and I am not sure if he is doing this to make some kind of statement. Does anyone do this and how do I deal with this mannerly?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iliketennis

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hit him back harder dummy

he's bullying you. you gotta stand up to it
 
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Dole

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yeah ill slap him back see the kinda feeling i get
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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He's either trying to bully you OR he's gay.

I personally don't go touching other males as I only dig women but, I guess if a really close friend were to say/do something completely retarded, yeah, I'd slap him in the back of the head and say "wtf were you thinking dude!?"
 
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