General Question for those in college or graduated

[tobiashunter]

Would you rather pick up women IN your classes or ones that you see on campus (but not in any of your classes)? I'm just wondering. Also if you have any success stories about in classes, please share. I prefer to try those in my classes but it seems I am instantly placed on the friend ladder...

 

[RIDER]

Yeah chicks in your classes are easy targets. I had quite a few dates last semester which resulted from just building up some rapport in and after class and then simply asking if she'd like to go out for coffee sometime

I still have numbers from chicks that I havn't called yet.. but I'm picky and still trying to work out getting the 8+'s

 

[tobiashunter]

Originally posted by RIDER
Yeah chicks in your classes are easy targets. I had quite a few dates last semester which resulted from just building up some rapport in and after class and then simply asking if she'd like to go out for coffee sometime

I still have numbers from chicks that I havn't called yet.. but I'm picky and still trying to work out getting the 8+'s

The problem with classes (the one in particular where I am in a class of 12 girls, me, 2 average joes and 3 football players... and only 1 girl is below hb6....) is if you do anything in groups it seems to either extremely help (IE., get together after class for "mandatory" work that can turn into "voluntary") or she would rather just be your "in-class only friend"...

 

[tristan22]

I had better luck in bars-- most of the girls in my classes looked like owls!

One tip i will give you is, if you ever want to hook up with a girl in your class never get their number from the university directory. I made this mistake one time, and it totally blew up in my face.

I built a rapport with a hottie in my class. Instead of asking for # in class i looked her up in the directory and proceeded to call her on the phone. This totally freaked her out! Each day of class, she would come in late so she could sit far away from me and she would walk to her dorm the long way to avoid me. The vibe she was giving off, made me feel like a total creep. Talk about smashing ones confidence..live and learn....live and learn!

 

[Kaparski]

Originally posted by tristan22
I had better luck in bars-- most of the girls in my classes looked like owls!

One tip i will give you is, if you ever want to hook up with a girl in your class never get their number from the university directory. I made this mistake one time, and it totally blew up in my face.

I built a rapport with a hottie in my class. Instead of asking for # in class i looked her up in the directory and proceeded to call her on the phone. This totally freaked her out! Each day of class, she would come in late so she could sit far away from me and she would walk to her dorm the long way to avoid me. The vibe she was giving off, made me feel like a total creep. Talk about smashing ones confidence..live and learn....live and learn!

LOL! Ill take ur advice.

 

[tobiashunter]

Originally posted by tristan22

One tip i will give you is, if you ever want to hook up with a girl in your class never get their number from the university directory. I made this mistake one time, and it totally blew up in my face.

I have done this, but I had "excuses". Like I forgot something in class and she was the first person I thought of, and I started off by:

"hey this is ********. I hope you don't mind me callin' ya, but I won't be in class tomorrow and I wanted to know if you could tell me this saturday what we covered."

Worked two out of 3 times (3rd time was on a girl who was a firefighter...). Went out that weekend, then proceed to confirm on a date... which ended OK... but nothing spectacular (IE., she was rather boring, even though she was hot)

 

[So pimp its scary]

College was an amazing memory for me... I was renowned at my school, when all that I did was made a promise to myself to "Meet 1 NEW woman every single day with no exception".

It took a month before I had people come up to me to ask me for advice because they would like to be talking to women like that. Didn't matter if it was in class (talking quietly) or in the student lounge (where the majority of my conquests began).

"College girls are easy" - Easy-E

 

[diablo]

To answer your question, you should try picking up both before throwing out theoretical questions like that. I mean, unless you've got your game to the point where you can successfully seduce one or the other you shouldn't be worrying about picking and choosing where you should or shouldn't go after girls. Just do it.

 

[madgame]

@so pimp: Have you finished college already? Cause it sounds like you're done with it..at 21 (but then again I'm 22 and it says im still 20 lol).

 

[So pimp its scary]

I was only in college for one year, I failed 4 out of 5 classes and dropped out. I've never had quite so much success with women as when I was in college. BTW, I'm 23 now.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by tristan22
I had better luck in bars-- most of the girls in my classes looked like owls!

One tip i will give you is, if you ever want to hook up with a girl in your class never get their number from the university directory. I made this mistake one time, and it totally blew up in my face.

I built a rapport with a hottie in my class. Instead of asking for # in class i looked her up in the directory and proceeded to call her on the phone. This totally freaked her out! Each day of class, she would come in late so she could sit far away from me and she would walk to her dorm the long way to avoid me. The vibe she was giving off, made me feel like a total creep. Talk about smashing ones confidence..live and learn....live and learn!

I had a friend of mine do that and it worked out perfectly for him; he met his girlfriend and they've been dating for quite some time now.

It works best, I think, when you've made a good "quick" impression but circumstances prevented you from asking for a phone number (somebody had to leave quickly, etc.).

 

[HeartlessBtch]

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I was only in college for one year, I failed 4 out of 5 classes and dropped out. I've never had quite so much success with women as when I was in college. BTW, I'm 23 now.

Sounds like you had to pick between your social life with women and school...

 

[BrotherAP]

I walked into my second day of calculus with a flyer/sign up sheet for "Math 191 Study Group" - and, the next thing I knew, I had every damn phone number and email in the entire class. After a few study sessions, I was already getting calls mid-week from girls who were really had nothing to ask me, but were trying to sound like they did. Ahh, life was good.

Start a study group in your class. It's great for meeting, attracting, and getting to know. If you do this, study hard before the meetings and have a plan/some rules, so that it's clear that your the leader. Chicks dig a man who people listen to.

You don't have to start a study group to get noticed, but you always have a better chance with a girl if she's seen you before you've noticed her. I tend to make a lot of friends in my classes and just before/after my classes. I'll flit with all the girls, and even if they don't end up going out with me I'll be seen chatting with them, and that's always a good thing. Also, if I show up for a class and the teacher's gone, sometimes I'll address the entire class with a question I have ("Did anybody get #12 on the homework? I thought it was impossible... but I got all the others!"). I've met girls a few times that way, when they responded with something like "Yeah, but did you get 13?" So you trade answers, change the subject to something else (preferably shared interests, say for example snowboarding) and tell her something along the lines of "Damn, we're both smart on our own rights, but toghether - we're unstoppable. I'd bet we'd be great snowboarding together too! Here, write down your phone number for me" This one works like gold.

Girls are incredibly easy to meet on campus, at least during the day (girls can be tense and distrusting at night if you're approaching alone). You should feel like a kid in a candy store on campus, and approach girls shamelessly. Especially at the beginning of the semester, when many people don't know a lot of people or have their social circles intact. This is the time that social proof is the most powerful - if you know people, they're going to want to know you. You know the secret to knowing people is just making an effort to meet them. So talk to everyone and get yourself a place reserved on that August bash guest list.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
Sounds like you had to pick between your social life with women and school...

I made the right decision one way or the other... I wouldda ran out of funds the next year either way. It didn't happen intentionally, I figured I could still pass the classes, because I knew my shyt in class, only to find out that the tests are to make sure you read the books outside of class... bastards.

I even turned around a few heartlessb!tches in that day as well...... ...

 

[HeartlessBtch]

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I even turned around a few heartlessb!tches in that day as well...... ...

:crackup: :crackup: