ok so I am 20 years old, in the university(as discussed in a previous thread ) the end of semester is coming in 2 weeks, and that's when I plan to call and ask thisgirl out(until then we have our finals so neither of us would be free)
I know from other articles that I'm supposed to have everythign planned before asking her out, as in where we would go and when and what do we do...
I plan on asking her out for coffee(something low pressure, where we can talk and I can get to know her better) but my questions are:
1) since we live in seperate areas(we are not very far apart but still), should the shop be closer to my home or hers?
2) should I pick her up or should she drve and meet me there herself?
3) if I ask her for coffee and she says she doesn't drink coffee for example(she might be sayign the truth, I don't drink coffee ) should I suggest somethign else or just take it as a hint of non interest?
4) when do I set up the date to be? on a weekend? on the day after I call? I am worried that if I suggest a following day or somethign too near, she might be busy. do I ask first if she is doing something on*insert day here* or do I throw my date proposal and wait for her to come up with some excuse?
help
I know from other articles that I'm supposed to have everythign planned before asking her out, as in where we would go and when and what do we do...
I plan on asking her out for coffee(something low pressure, where we can talk and I can get to know her better) but my questions are:
1) since we live in seperate areas(we are not very far apart but still), should the shop be closer to my home or hers?
2) should I pick her up or should she drve and meet me there herself?
3) if I ask her for coffee and she says she doesn't drink coffee for example(she might be sayign the truth, I don't drink coffee ) should I suggest somethign else or just take it as a hint of non interest?
4) when do I set up the date to be? on a weekend? on the day after I call? I am worried that if I suggest a following day or somethign too near, she might be busy. do I ask first if she is doing something on*insert day here* or do I throw my date proposal and wait for her to come up with some excuse?
help