Gender roles: pursuing sex vs. pursuing relationships

[Bokanovsky]

This point if often brought up by Playher Man in his posts and it can't be emphasized enough. It is not a man's job to try to convince a woman to be in a relationship with him. In fact, doing so is a major turn-off and often the kiss of death. Do not, ever, initiate talks about exclusivity. Do not ask her where you stand with her. You should only concern yourself with getting her to have sex with you. Once you cross that threshold, it is now her turn to chase you. Women understand and actually expect this. If you flip the script, not only would you be doing unnecessary work but you would also be giving a woman a reason to doubt your value (just like you would doubt the long-term value of a girl who is too slutty and sleeps with you on the first date).

 

[NewJack]

"Hey Guys, Just Bang Your Way Into LTRs."

OK Chief. Will do.

How does the relationship survive as you remove the mask of Uncaring Bangmaster?

"Hey baby, I want to care about you now."

"But the catch is, you have to make me care about you, baby."

I'd rather just risk giving her flowers, brohams. Quality girls next you for being the Aloof Bangmaster. At least thats happened to me.

 

[PlayHer Man]

"Hey Guys, Just Bang Your Way Into LTRs."

OK Chief. Will do.

How does the relationship survive as you remove the mask of Uncaring Bangmaster?

"Hey baby, I want to care about you now."

"But the catch is, you have to make me care about you, baby."

I'd rather just risk giving her flowers, brohams. Quality girls next you for being the Aloof Bangmaster. At least thats happened to me.

100% bullsh!t (the stuff in red).

How many hoops does George Clooney jump through to get laid? Are all the women sluts OR is it just that they see his value and don't want to risk losing the opportunity to another woman?

This "quality woman" crap a lot of men spew here is the most successful con job the female gender has ever pulled. A "quality" woman makes you kiss her ass. Yeeaahhh.... alright. ONLY IF YOU HAVE NO OBVIOUS VALUE.

Making a man wait always means low interest. The difference between a slut and a non-slut is her standards.. NOT how fast she jumps into bed. Higher standards means sex with less men (since less men measure up). And standards depend a lot on what she looks like, her age and how much time she has before she loses her looks.

But if she has very high standards.. she is most likely chasing CEO's, Male models and George Clooney. If not.. then she is most likely a control freak who wants a slave.

A lot of men on this site are chasing women out of their league.. AND expecting full love and commitment from them. Come on people.. at best you can f*ck a woman out of your league OR get her at the end of her c0ck carousel days when she is in the first stages of aging and ready to settle for a loyal beta faggot.

If you want a 22 year old Jessica Alba for your soul mate you need to get your head checked. :crazy: