She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fatal Jay said:Exactly....
How is that even possible? More wealth redistribution for welfare leeches, glorification, loans and incentives for single motherhood, loans for bad credit holders, trampling on the constitution, a solid crackdown on any vestiges of traditional masculinity, citizenship for 11 million undocumented 3rd worlders, etc etc.samspade said:The person occupying the White House has very little bearing on my life.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Did you support Ron Paul?( . )( . ) said:How is that even possible? More wealth redistribution for welfare leeches, glorification, loans and incentives for single motherhood, loans for bad credit holders, trampling on the constitution, a solid crackdown on any vestiges of traditional masculinity, citizenship for 11 million undocumented 3rd worlders, etc etc.
I mean unless you literally live in a cave cut off from the outside world and don't pay any taxes that statement just sounds idiotic. The person occupying the white house is your life and every facet of your way of life from here on out.
Don't get me wrong I'm all for nonchalance but that makes as much sense as me grunting a big steamer off into your cornflakes and you turning around and telling me "it's all goooooood". Surely just the smell of a fresh turd is just a tiny bit off putting?
Or perhaps your one of those uninvested mgtow dudes who actually want's to watch it burn? If so I take back everything I said.
Where are you from then... the land of big tits? I feel we should know each other better than snarky comments on sosuave.( . )( . ) said:Only in spirit. I'm not a U.S citizen. My countrymen of simpleton suckups just apes everything you fvckin idiots do. So what affects(infects) you affects me and mine in the long run obviously.
MaddXMan said:Don't look to Rand Paul to carry his father's torch. Rand has gone full wackaloon fundamentalist. Recently he took a pandering trip to Israel with the fundies, they walked around singing hymns. These are the people who support Israel solely because they believe in the rapture, and this is a mainstream belief in modern American conservatism.
http://crooksandliars.com/nicole-belle/rand-paul-operative-wants-lead-domini
“There is a lot of ruin in a nation,” wrote Adam Smith. His point was that it takes a long time for nations to fall, even when they’re dead on their feet. And he was certainly right.
America took its fatal blow in 1913, one hundred years ago; it just hasn’t hit the ground yet. This is a slow process, but it’s actually fast compared to the Romans. It took them several centuries to collapse.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Agreed. Australia. It's down the bottom somewhere and embarrassingly enough we're still your biggest (only?) fans apparently. I think you fellas visiting here used to compare us to Texans. Now if you said that we'd probably wonder why your calling us Mexicans I guess.Malice said:Where are you from then... the land of big tits? I feel we should know each other better than snarky comments on sosuave.
Don't tell me about Australia. I have cousins there and I know it's a ***** to get there because it was a 24 hour plane trip when my uncle died.( . )( . ) said:Agreed. Australia. It's down the bottom somewhere and embarrassingly enough we're still your biggest (only?) fans apparently. I think you fellas visiting here used to compare us to Texans. Now if you said that we'd probably wonder why your calling us Mexicans I guess.
But hey it could be worse, at least we're both not as far down the toilet as the U.KThose poor fvckers are almost at the S bend. You know your about to hit rock bottom when your troops are getting their heads cut off in broad daylight in the middle of the street ....then for the privilege of protecting that soil and just to add insult to injury their advised not to wear their military uniforms.....in their own country :crazy:
It wouldn't take much to put SNL out of business these days.Justin Time said:The comedy in this thread is enough to put SNL and Jon Stewart out of business.
Malice said:What did speeddawg have to say about Ron Paul? Did speeddawg support Ron Paul, or just ***** about him? Paul could have won if he got more support. But no, Paul got blackballed by the media due to his stance on Israel.
I have no sympathy if he didn't support Paul. I love that guy.
I will vote for Hillary twice in a tribute to speed dawg and conservatives that blackballed Paul. I voted for Obama just to spite you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There is also no law requiring you to live in a house. I guess that means that there is no need for search warrants because everyone who chooses to buy or rent a house is giving the government permission to search it at any time.samspade said:If you are referring to the NSA, everyone being spied on has given their permission. There is no law requiring people to buy cell phones, lap tops, or join Facebook. Personally I have decided for myself it is more advantageous to use these devices than to eschew them, but I do so with the understanding that my security can be breached - and not just by the government.
You are right, there is no change. That is because contrary to popular belief, America is not a democracy. The Republicans and Democrats are the flip sides of the same coin and no third party stands a chance because of the enormous costs of entry (both financial, i.e. campaign financing and non-financial, i.e. mainstream media deliberately ignoring third-party candidates). This is not much different from elections in the Soviet Union, where you had several candidates but they were all from the Communist Party. In America, you have two parties instead of one, but their policies are virtually identical and they are both controlled by the same special interest groups.samspade said:I have lived through seven presidents now, and my life has changed very little as a result of any one of them coming or going.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.