Geeky HB "study buddy" coming to my pad, suggestions?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

sighsigh

Don Juan

Oct 10, 2012

Just get a pizza delivered. You want her to be in a good mood when you make your move and that's going to be more likely if she's eaten delicious pizza and not your crummy frozen burgers.

Escalate the kino and show your desire through eye contact. If all the IOIs seem there then definitely go in for the kiss. Do it in a confident manner: like you KNOW she wants it and is definitely going to reciprocate. Don't do it cautiously. Dante1a had a good post.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.