"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PeterCrouch

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Ok so college started on monday, after our first week (my 2nd year, lots of new ppl, new tutor etc) ive got myself a bit of a reputation!

Everyone in my tutor knows me by name now!

Now when i walk in a couple of the gals have said "heres the man of the hour" or something like that "oh here he is"

When were put into groups one gal keeps saying "oh god, why do we have to have him?!"

Ive made pretty much everyone laugh (im a funny guy)

One gal wanted me to take her to her maths class after an hour of meeting her, she sat next to me we had some fun in class!

one gal has drawn all up my arm in pen (god knows why?!)

2 gals have lent me money to buy some food a couple of days ago, now whenever they see me, there asking where the money i owe them is!

One of those gals said something like "oh your stupid" so i told her she isnt getting the 20p i owe her back and kept telling her while she was blowing me kisses trying to get into my good books!

The same gal has a very dirty mind and whenever ive mentioned something remotely dirty shes said "oh you dirty boy"

Funny thing happend today tho, we have a guy in our class who we call carrot and someone asked where he was so i said (stupidly) "well i ate him, he said he was called carrot" and everyone laughed and one gal while laughing said "omg your such a geek hahaha"

dunno if this is a good thing or not?


Having alot of fun actually winding people up, its great!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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griffon65

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wow your overanalyzing wayy too much. The real question is who cares??? What do you want out of this class? A few friends? a date? to make everyone laugh?

If acting the way your acting is getting you closer to your goals keep at it, if not then next time ur in a class change the way you behave.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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That was just her way of pointing out how lame the joke really was, even though it was funny. I have a friend who is the king of really lame jokes, but they are funny none the less.... It's nothing. Stop reading into it... unless you really are a geek.
 

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isn't "geek" a synonimous of "nerd"?
what is a nerd joke?:confused:
 

Mr. Cardio

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I believe you are being natural, you are not trying to be anybody but yourself, and you are having a good time and you are experiencing natural joy. The result of this will be that you will get real friends, women who are interested in YOU, and a better life and social life at that. Keep up the good work.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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So.....have you ever fuked any of these myriad of women who are constantly singing your praises or do you just make pointless threads about them?

Seems every week there's always at least 3 or 4 females who tell you to your face exactly how hot they think you are.....but no Lay Reports?????
 

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Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
So.....have you ever fuked any of these myriad of women who are constantly singing your praises or do you just make pointless threads about them?

Seems every week there's always at least 3 or 4 females who tell you to your face exactly how hot they think you are.....but no Lay Reports?????
Nope not ****ed any of them, got a problem with that?

BTW Ive just met these ppl, and none of them have told me to my face how hot iam!
 

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General rule of thumb: Most times when people verbalize a 'distaste' (for lack of a better term) directly at the person then they usually don't mean it in a bad way.

For example, you tease a girl and she says "Oh shut up!" she likes it and doesn't actually want you to shut up. However, if she just stays silent then you probably did offend her.

This is pretty much the exact same situation with her calling you a geek.
 
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