"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gaze into her eyes...(this will make her flustered & curious)

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Anyway i did this yesterday with my date and thought it would be very useful. But i think this would probably work best depending on situational factors.

Seats facing each other (preferrably at a restaurant).
Deeply gaze into her eyes (or at her) with a smile, if she's intimidated she will most likely be the one to look away first.
Every time she would look away and back at me, i would continue gazing at her.

It was hilarious i did this for about 10 minutes. She was getting all flustered and shy like a gitty school girl, playing with her hair and smiling. And she kept asking "What is it...?" "C'mon..tell me, what are you thinking...?"
But i did not answer her question.
Half way in i couldnt help myself but laugh every time i looked at her. i tried to let the laughter out and do the gazing thing again but i couldnt.
Then... i tried to look serious to avoid laughing, then she wanted to attempt the gazing thing at me, but again she's the first to look away. After this we kept laughing anytime we tried to look at each other.

Anyway she kept asking me, and i said i'd tell her later.
But later on, i ended up telling her how i love it when she's shy.

But there were other little things i did to heighten the experience. You can make it up as you go.

It's best to stop (or leave) the restuarant at its climax...dont wait to leave after it starts crapping out.

Why does this work?
- EC is a great IOI.
- Girls love it when they are the center of the guy's attention.
- Lovers gaze into each other's eyes all the time. And with this, it can give the illusion as if you are lovers.
- It makes her wonder what you're thinking and enhances her curiousity...the longer you dont tell her the more she'll wonder.
- It represents your dominant status and her submissive nature. (in other words it shows her who's calling the shots)

When will it not work?
- If you lack confidence
- If you're the first to look away (shows your weak nature)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Boner da Stoner

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double post... do a search next time
cannot repeat even 5% of the time

but true, girls get flustered by long term EC

this isn't really a tip, we all know about EC but this is more a lame FR than anything...
 
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