"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gay power!!!

Mr.De Beer

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Hey guys, I just want to know if all this stuff also work on guys. Being a gay guy is also challangeing, and I also get anxiety when approaching men.
I also think so suave should be open for all gay men, and that we should have a sepperate forum. Thanks for listening guys. I know youre with me on this.

Love all of you guys

Francis
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Unique

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Stop trolling this site.



Dont give this guy any attention in other words DONT FEED HIM!
 

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Originally posted by Mr.De Beer
I also think so suave should...have a sepperate forum. I know youre with me on this.
I'm not with you on this one. :cheer:

You have penty of gay forums to choose from in order to find like minded individuals. This is a forum that helps heterosexual men attract heterosexual women.
 
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