"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gay male shaming vs lesbian shaming

sosousage

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lesbian shaming == oh sheit thats cute and sexy mayb some threesome??

gay male shaming == social exclusion, gossips, hate in job from any kind of people (young, old, coworker, boss), pointing out with finger on the street, using that as argument/insult during conflicts, etc

its unfair IMO, and its mostly men who shame other men this way
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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lesbian shaming == oh sheit thats cute and sexy mayb some threesome??
Depends on what type of lesbian.
In any case, I'd just as soon stay out of it.
 

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If you don't experience either, what does it matter?
 
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