"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gay male shaming vs lesbian shaming

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lesbian shaming == oh sheit thats cute and sexy mayb some threesome??

gay male shaming == social exclusion, gossips, hate in job from any kind of people (young, old, coworker, boss), pointing out with finger on the street, using that as argument/insult during conflicts, etc

its unfair IMO, and its mostly men who shame other men this way
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sosousage said:
lesbian shaming == oh sheit thats cute and sexy mayb some threesome??
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Depends on what type of lesbian.
In any case, I'd just as soon stay out of it.
 
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If you don't experience either, what does it matter?
 
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