"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gay lookin' guyz or strong ruff lookin' guyz?

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what attracts the women more?

the gay kinda face (leonardo dicaprio, christian slater - in his early gay days) or the opposite (bruce willis, will smith, colin farrel) ?

i'd be put in the opposite section. although i use to wish i was the gay kinda face section... having that messy hair, blue eyes, perfect skin, etc. fuk... what's more appealing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i'm nearer the gay section but i really wish i was in the masculine one

in my experience, the masculine males pick up about 10 times the number the gay guys do

[edit] and tails, make a poll on it
 

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i look like leonardo di carpio ive been told,

ive also heard seth green, Warren Battey, and others though

But i can get laid VERY easily by hot chicks right away when i meet them, even if shes a virgin

you just have to have the right attidue and skills (btw, im not single anymore )
 

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show me pic.
 

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who attracts the most women?

gay pretty boy guy (Christian Slater, Leonardo DiCaprio)

http://www.posterplanet.net/pictures/images/Cs1b8.gif

http://adorocinema.cidadeinternet.c...res/leonardo-dicaprio/leonardo-dicaprio02.jpg

OR...

masculine, strong tuff mature looking guy (Denzel Washington, Bruce Willis)

http://www.posterplanet.net/pictures/images/dw1b3.gif

http://140.131.26.9/fileupload/K/DVD00036.jpg - (Willis being on the right of course.)

Willis is my favorite actor by the way, hehe. I remember I use to wish i looked like leo though, i hated the way i looked, but it turns out to be that i'm a pretty good looking guy, i'd be put in the "masculine, strong tuff mature looking guy" section, because i look alot like denzel, just younger. since i don't have such a pretty boy look.

give me your thoughts on this guys.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Interesting thread.

I've gone through a lot of different phases, from the "cute" look, to the boyband/gay look, to the masculine look and now I'm kind of inbetween. I dress and groom like a gay person would and I have high cheekbones and blue eyes, but I'm 6.3", wideshouldered and have a masculine presence.

I always used to hate the way I look too and if it wasn't for the fact that I pick up so many compliments, I would never think of myself as good looking.

I think girls tend to go for the overall presence of a masculine male (Denzil Washington, Robert Deniro etc) because they ooze confidence and raw masculine sexuality. Whereas a pretty boy probably loses his appeal more quickly.

BTW. Whenever I ask girls which celebrities they like, the most popular seems to be Bruce Willis.
 

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Depends on the woman. Always. Don't try to morph yourself into what you think the 'majority' thinks is attractive. Rather figure out who you are naturally and be comfortable with that person.
 

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I read an article in Newsweek that said that women go for the masculine look when they are ovulating but go for the gay look when they aren't, which was a longer time I believe. Of course, if you have a masculine personality then these differences in looks shouldn't matter *as much.*
 

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I agree with xblitz44x

and AlwaysExcel.

Some women tell me I'm "handsome" while other women just don't show any interest in me. I don't know which group I would fall in, maybe something in between. I think "handsome" means you're rugged looking. But just a few years ago I was only called cute which to me would be pretty (feminine) as opposed to manly.

Whether you are masculine or feminine, there will always be women who are attracted to you/aren't attracted to you. My guess is if you look masculine you better act masculine. That's what my guess is.
 

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Originally posted by AlwaysExcel
I read an article in Newsweek that said that women go for the masculine look when they are ovulating but go for the gay look when they aren't, which was a longer time I believe. Of course, if you have a masculine personality then these differences in looks shouldn't matter *as much.*
What Newsweek was this in?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why either/or situation?

What I think they like the most is a stunningly gorgeous face with a masculine , rugged body. Ie. best of both options stated suggested in the post.

To answer the actual question, I think both sides have their advantages, i'd say being masculine is slightly more important. Just because of all the behavioural implications it has. Being "pretty" doesn't mean you must have a gay personality (see Matt Damon). Or a femenine body.

Reality is this, cute guys can bulk up, ugly guys can't get prettier.
 

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It was a long time ago so I can't remember what issue. Actually it might have been Men's Health! I know it was in SOME magazine. LOL!
 

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Originally posted by nan3109
i look like leonardo di carpio ive been told,

ive also heard seth green, Warren Battey, and others though

But i can get laid VERY easily by hot chicks right away when i meet them, even if shes a virgin

you just have to have the right attidue and skills (btw, im not single anymore )
Yeah, its wierd how u can get that huh? Someone can say you look like Leonardo and then others say Seth. They look TOTALLY different.

I always get I look like a famous actor. They range from, Christian Slater (all the time), Young George Clooney (was getting this every fukcing day when I created this username), Ricky Martin, David Beckham, Van Damme, Pacey AND Dawson (out of Dawsons Creek), WTFFFF, hahahha, how can I look like so many people. Especially when some of those dudes look TOTALLY different!!!!!!

I would also say that pretty dudes get more action.........although I have been known to be wrong once in a while.
 
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