"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gay dude but chicks want him!

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There is a gay dude I know who is still in the closet. He is extremely popular because he does look good and dresses extremely fashionably, sings in a choir, does have an extremely attractive voice. Guess what, chicks dig him and want him! There is not even a hint of masculinity in him at all (asexual)and he is obviously gay (he checks me out sometimes). I suppose some of the chump women are too dumb to actually hit on him. Discuss, please.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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befriend him.
he can hook you up with his girlfriends, teach you how to dress, but don't worry if he checks you out, you know you're straight so just accept it.
 
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Discuss what? It sounds like another case of a man living how he pleases, this is obviously appealing to women as backed by the site.

It sounds like there's some more backstory here. You say there no hint of masculinity and that this guy's asexual. Do you mean asexual in the context that he never discuss's sex, or that he doesn't physically interact with other people---what I'm assuming you mean is that he doesn't project any sexuality, but he "looks good" :rolleyes: as you describe him and dresses well. Obviously this gets girls' attention and they respond sexually....

He might be obviously gay to you but if other don't know then they would think he's straight. Or he could be gay and it's just another case of a girl wanting what she can't have.

Girls respond real intensely to flamboyant guys as well as badasses....I can't gather enough info from your OP though it just sounds like a rant haha


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I know some some badass b!tches in choir...like seriously 16 y/olds with badass bodies sexy as fuk, and they've told me choir guys are attractive to them? If a dude sings he probably ain't that shy.
 
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I graduated from high school with a guy who played quarterback on the football team, dated the prom queen, and still lives in our same small town...with his boyfriend.
 
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PapiChulo said:
There is a gay dude I know who is still in the closet. He is extremely popular because he does look good and dresses extremely fashionably, sings in a choir, does have an extremely attractive voice. Guess what, chicks dig him and want him! There is not even a hint of masculinity in him at all (asexual)and he is obviously gay (he checks me out sometimes). I suppose some of the chump women are too dumb to actually hit on him. Discuss, please.
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We all know that women want what they cannot have. Well, what's more unattainable for a woman than a guy who literally does not want a woman?

Masculinity is, in and of itself, not nearly as important as confidence. This guy never feels insecure or unsure of himself around girls, because he has no interest in trying to impress them. He's confident, looks good and is talented; these attributes are far more important to girls than being able to rip a phone book in half.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Uberguy said:
We all know that women want what they cannot have. Well, what's more unattainable for a woman than a guy who literally does not want a woman?

Masculinity is, in and of itself, not nearly as important as confidence. This guy never feels insecure or unsure of himself around girls, because he has no interest in trying to impress them. He's confident, looks good and is talented; these attributes are far more important to girls than being able to rip a phone book in half.
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Yeah, it's exactly that.


I would like to ass this to the discussion: his fan club consists mainly out of the "nice" guy female counterparts. They are indeed chump women, who want a "woman" with a penis as a romantic partner. These women also are less feminine to begin with, in my opinion.

It also speaks on the irrationality of being attracted to someone who is not gonna return the affection.


And yes, I did befriend the guy already.
 
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Discuss what? It sounds like another case of a man living how he pleases, this is obviously appealing to women as backed by the site.
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Yeah, that's true,for the exception that he is still in the closet. He basically leads the chicks on until they figure out.
 
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