"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gay best friend...?

leeroyjenkins

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I've heard a lot about girls falling in love with their gay best friends but does that actually happen? I've got a really good friend who's gay but also fairly macho, he moisturises, works out lots, fashion sense and all the girls talk about how much they wish he was straight etc....do they actually fall for these guys?

and could you possibly adapt this to pull girls? like...act a bit camp and then reveal you're straight? charlie sheen tried it on two and a half men and it seemed to work for him :p

well...it would've done if he'd got an erection :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SinJester

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Leeroy mate think about it from a woman's perspective. If a guy is apparantly gay and they somehow manage to turn him straight imagine what kind of ego trip that is for them! It is like telling her how much of a woman she is! Plus if you know your stuff you know girls like guys that aren't interested, so gay guys can indirectly play out a DJ role. Hell just look at how the peacock :p

I love it when girls ask if I'm gay, so many c/f oppurtunities.
 

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nice! :-D I think I may change my game slightly :p

also, if anyone gets to read this I have a tactic for dealing with a girls gay best friend...

be nice to him! get him a drink! from what I can tell the gay best friend is pretty powerful and can decide whether you get in there or not - my mate once split up his friend from her new bf because he didn't like him and also his best friend asked him what he thought about her new bf...the new bf had been nice to him so he talked him up and now they're together! so what I'm saying is, be nice to him and the woman follows :p
 

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Hey, true enough guys, but you have to be REAL careful to make sure that your gay friend doesn't get designs on you. Actually once I made this mistake and ended up in a rather awkward situation and lost a lot of HBs to it. Gay guys can be like girls if your not careful. Reject them and they tell everone.

Trust me, I know. T_T
 

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YOu guys are fools.......the only reason a girl is attracted to a gay guy is "BECAUSE HE IS A CHALLENGE"

Think about it gay guys are the definition inherent of AFC....yet gilrs love them

I swear sometimes you guys can't see the forest for the trees and it is no wonder you dont get laid

Women like:
Bad Boys
Married Men
Men with girlfriends
and yes gay guys all for one reason

THEY A?RE ALL A CHALLENGE

Isnt that what DJ'ing is all about

If she actually turned a gay guy straight, she would dump him on his ass in 6 seconds flat cause he would be too AFC all the time.

Uggggg you guys disgust me....how many times do you here women say they dont want a man who takes more time to get ready than them.....acts needy....ect....ect....well these are all things gay guys do, but that is all negayed by the challenge and knowing she cant have him

Same thing as if she lands a DJ and he turns all AFC on her ....she is gonna head for the hills
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SinJester

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TanzaniaMan your right that girls just want a challenge and that's why they want the gay guy, see the ego trip I talked about. I can see two possible scenarios if she gets him, 1. She dumps him because she's not a challenge anymore, 2. keep him because she invested so much into him and he is the ultimate proof of her womanhood.

Just like how women like guys who have something about him they can 'fix'. They think they can and will spend a lifetime doing it because she thinks that if she can fix him he will owe her and he will never cheat on her. Depending on what she is fixing she might get rid of you, or at least cheat, if you hand her your balls. On the other hand she might feel she has invested too much in you.
 

oakraiderz2

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Wow, the routes people desire to take in order to get girls, pathetic. Improve yourself and make girls want you for you. This sh*t is crazy.
 
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