"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gay AFC friend?

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Ganondorf!

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Hey guys

I come to you with an odd situation, but i think it's still similar

I have this gay friend who really wants to be with this dude who he's seeing right now. the problem is that he is beyond AFC

shall I make a list???

-He just met the guy not to long ago and he's trying to move in with him
-The guys is giving him the run around about committing
-instead of seeing other guys like I've told him, he chooses to stay stuck on this one and cry about him
-He writes him notes talking about how he does see how much he makes him happy and that he needs to realize that
-he tries to make all sorts of time to see him (even calling off work) to go see this man
-Buys him gifts and sh1t


Now this man is not even that great. He seems like a player for one, often blowing off my friend to go home with random dudes at the club. he doesn't have a Job and doesn't do anything.

I've told my friend time and time again that he shouldn't stress this guy, and that he's obviously not that great if this is how he's treating him, but he just won't listen

and the weird thing is that my friend seemed to never have a problem getting boyfriends (having just recently dumped his last one) so you think he'd not be this way for just ONE guy, but he is

I know this is weird, but the same principles apply

even Gay guys can Be AFC's
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warrior74

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Take this gay shiit to a gay forum. You should be banned for this.
 

Julian

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Warrior74 said:
Take this gay shiit to a gay forum. You should be banned for this.

No sh1t GTFO with this sh1t. gannondorf, are you sure your not the "friend"? :cheer:
 

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wtf?!? :S what this has to do with Djs? :/
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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