“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rollo Tomassi

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GAV: Well done. I've done Max OT for a year and a half now and I can tell you this is the best, most honest, no bvllsh!t program there is. I combine Max OT with the Body for Life diet plan and I've put on 15lbs. of lean muscle and dropped my body fat content to around 12% (though I've been lower).

http://www.ast-ss.com

Do you use the AST suppliments? I do the current bracketing with VP2, Nitro, Creatine and I've added GABA to my night time schedule.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi

Do you use the AST suppliments? I do the current bracketing with VP2, Nitro, Creatine and I've added GABA to my night time schedule.
na man, wish i had the money for all that stuff. used to use creatine and whey, but i've dropped them as well.

sounds like you've made some nice progress. keep it up dude
 

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Quick update

End of week 8 today

lifts haven't improved that much, but i don't care tbh. i don't even care that i'm under the 70kg mark now (betweem 68 and 69.5). The excess fat around my stomach disappeared because of increased cardio three times a week, while my muscle mass remained intact, if not developed, through the max ot programme.

biggest lift improvements:

incline db bench:
from
20kg * 4
18kg * 6
18kg * 6 to
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26kg * 6
26kg * 6
26kg * 6

db curls
from
16kg * 6reps
16kg * 6reps
to
20kg * 6
20kg * 6
20kg * 6

apart from that, no real improvement in weight; just improvement in form because that's much more important.

week off the gym next week, then back on again for more max ot
 

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Hey this guy looks like Brad Pitt no joke.

Hey gav, what was your cardio routine?
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
Hey this guy looks like Brad Pitt no joke.

Hey gav, what was your cardio routine?
prolonged sexual intercourse :D

heh,

also, i forgot to mention my pullups have got better

widegrip forward grip
0kg * 6
0kg * 6
0kg * 5

close grip reverse grip (working biceps)
0kg * 8
0kg * 8

and my abs are better than ever; the bottom two are defined now. i owe this to not drinking so much fvcking alcohol; mind you, tomorrow night i am getting fvcked oot ma tattie man :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dammit, I guess I'm screwed. ok I need to find a girl now. I tried running but you are having more results than I am it seems.
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
dammit, I guess I'm screwed. ok I need to find a girl now. I tried running but you are having more results than I am it seems.
well yeh, but just keep at the running - on your off days from the gym! i do 5 days monday to friday weight lifting. ideally i'd like to do 30 minutes sprinting on saturday and sunday. that's a good cardio/lifting routine.

if you are trying to lose fat and put on muscle, just reduce your carb intake. instead of the bulking level 40-50g of carbs, i take 30 when i'm trying to cut my stomach. just make sure you eat at least 30g (40-45g ideal) protein every 3 hours.

keep at it bud
 

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Hey

I'm experienceing the same thing as you, I'm getting more ripped but I stay about the same weight. Anyways, respect to your db curls. Happy screwing. =) Looking forward to read about your progress.
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Hey

I'm experienceing the same thing as you, I'm getting more ripped but I stay about the same weight. Anyways, respect to your db curls. Happy screwing. =) Looking forward to read about your progress.
Dude, what is happening to you guys is what guys like me dream about. Seriously, if you're not gaining weight, bubt losing fat, you're gaining muscle. Ripped is awesome. I just took a pic of myself now and I'm going to post it in the end when I am happy with my changes.
 

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quick update after my two week break from the gym

last week i went onto the scales after having eaten no food and weighed 10.5 stones! that's less than 150lbs !

so today i bought some whey and did a chest and ab workout.

(bench without a spot
60kg * 6
60kg * 4
60kg * 4

etc)

weight's about 150-152lbs, but i am absolutely shredded; lower abs are in place, and since i shaved my chest, there's good definition in the "inner chest" region.

legs are pathetic lol; i don't care about their appearance, but i will be working them to increase my testosterone

basically, far too much sex last week (made my girl cvm 4times in a row - about 20times that night total :D)

sex is bad; cardio is bad, abstain and be saved :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's good to have you back here gav. Sex is good. =)
 

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weight: 68kg after one meal

chest and abs

bb flat bench
62.5kg * 5
60kg * 5
60kg * 5

db incline bench
26kg * 6
28kg * 3

db decline bench
22kg * 6

db flat flies
12kg * 6

machine flies
65kg * 7

normal ab workout

i'm a skinny little bytch now so this week i'm upping the carbs, eating half a can of beans (30g carbs, 10g protein) with every meal.
 

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back and abs today
weight's 68-69.5 depending on water weight

deadlifts
80kg * 8
100kg * 6
105kg * 6
110kg * 4

bent over bb rows
70kg * 6 (very pish form, as some dude told me)
70kg * 6
50kg * 6 - good form

chin ups, wide grip
5reps
5reps

cg lat pulldowns
71kg * 6
71kg * 6

db curls
20kg * 6
20kg * 6

hammer curl bar curls
35kg * 6 (pish form apparently, coming from the owner of the gym)
25kg * 6
25kg * 6

cable curls
17.5kg * 6
17.5kg * 6

i'm on a serious bulk for at least one week cuz i'm far too skinny. last night, i tried to cram a cup of oatmeal with 400ml milk down my throat with a chicken breast. i got to the very end of the chicken breast when i threw up all over the bathroom, decorating the walls in little chicken strips. :D good to get back to old times
 

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chest and triceps

db incline bench
28kg * 5
28kg * 5
28kg * 4

db flat bench
28kg * 5
28kg * 4

db decline bench
22kg * 5
20kg * 8

db flies
12kg * 8
12kg * 8

standing up skullcrushers - such a thing?
20kg * 8
20kg * 8

cable pressdowns
55kg * 6
55kg * 5
55kg * 5
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nice story there... you sound like double. No he would eat it again and scream he is hardcore.

Your lifts are looking strong, Very impressive db presses
 

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LOL i thought the same:D ....but only at first.....because chicken with milk and oatmeal.......gets me almost puking just thinking about it.......but i need to grow bigger balls! keep it up gav
 

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heh, last night was porridge, half a chicken sandwich, beans and peanuts :woo:

shoulders and traps
weight: 69-70kg depending on water weight

db shoulder press
tried 26kg but couldn't get it up :trouble: ; fvckin gym only has one 24kg dumbbell
22kg * 7
22kg * 6
22kg * 6

overhead press machine (back straight up against rest)
50kg * 6
50kg * 6
50kg * 5

db side laterals
8kg * 8
8kg * 8
machine laterals
43kg * 4

db shrugs
36kg * 8
36kg * 8

bb shrugs
100kg * 6

my weight's going up really quickly just now. at the start of the week, i was 67.5kg; now i'm nearly back up to 70kg :rockon:
 

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strong db presses. **** dude.. take it easy :up:
 

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legs and calves
weight: 68.5kg; hoping its just lack of water weight

45' leg press (full motion)
140kg * 5
150kg * 5
150kg * 4

squats
80kg * 6
80kg * 6

prone leg curls (machine)
64kg * 6
68kg * 4

stiff leg deads
60kg * 6
65kg * 5

seated calve raises
50kg * 8
55kg * 8
55kg * 8
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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