"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gave me number but saying it's not her now?

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okay so i posted the other day about how i met a girl who has a bf at the bus station in town and SHE started lookin at me. i only just walked over to start a conversation, went well. she laughed a bit and she put her number in my phone. i just text her before (i know you gotta call but i dont care. i was bored) saying: "how are those lovely blue eyes hmm? i'd call but your bf might get, you know... jealous."

she replies with a: "hey who is this? im sorry i dont have ur number in my phone. and i dont have blue eyes, u may have the wrong number"

1. she might of given me the wrong number
2. she is lying and it IS her

now i text her couple days ago too... saying "how are you it's ***, how was the fashion show?" cause she said she was going that night i met her.

she never replied to that.

any ideas on what i should say for this next text?

i was thinking: "oh really? well then someone likes giving out your number. what is your name then?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fk it you took too long. i just said "i don't believe you simone (her name) but whatever ;) - do you have msn? fck this text sh!t."

again, i don't care if we hook up or not. i actually like to just say what's on my mind to see how they react. i'm not one of them guys who gets phased about rejection. i laugh it off.
 

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never phone txt, its for wuss

if you wanna talk to her or see her, use the phone or set up a date
 

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blah. i know that. i was only just texting to see if she'd reply or not. i don't even want to hook up with her. she's hot but ... i really don't see nothing more than a fuk.
 

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She probably acted like you had the wrong number because you texted her and took the easy way out. If you had called her, you could have recognized each other's voices, and it would be much easier to remind her of how you met. But oh well, its done now. Just call in the future.

Texts CAN work, but calls work a lot more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bingo_

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pretty gay though eh? i like texting. lol. funny how girls automatically think of you differently JUST because you text.
 

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then..probably she is not that interested with you ,is she? walk away..
 

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she shouldn't of given me her number or start looking at me. even making contact with me by hand.
 

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Wrong number or not, she's not interested enough. If she's just playing dumb because she doesn't want her bf to find out, then that already tells you something about her character. She's lame, you need to get more girls in your rotation, end of story.




PIMP
 

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Here's another instance that shows that a woman isn't necessarily interested if she gives you her phone number. It may slap logic in its face but none the less, it happens.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she WAS interested the moment she met u....then u texted her while her bf was there, and she texted u back in front of him that message so she wouldnt look like a cheater!

keep persisting once a week, call and say hi - its called not burning a bridge
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
she WAS interested the moment she met u....then u texted her while her bf was there, and she texted u back in front of him that message so she wouldnt look like a cheater!

keep persisting once a week, call and say hi - its called not burning a bridge
Or be a man, have some pride and not deal with a b!tch who's going to pull that sh!t on you, regardless of the reason. It's called not being a desperate, pansy-ass pvssy.
 

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Obviously, She Gave You A Fake Number. Duh! Is That Hard To Comprehend Given The Responses To Texting?
 

Pimp-sicle

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skip2mylou781 said:
she WAS interested the moment she met u....then u texted her while her bf was there, and she texted u back in front of him that message so she wouldnt look like a cheater!

keep persisting once a week, call and say hi - its called not burning a bridge

Says the genie with the magic lamp....now rub twice more for your last two wishes.




PIMP
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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God_of_getting_layed said:
Obviously, She Gave You A Fake Number. Duh! Is That Hard To Comprehend Given The Responses To Texting?
:up: yep.

I don't think she'd TEXT you just as a demo to her boyfriend..I mean, that simply doesn't make sense (for a whole variety of reasons).

She gave you the wrong number. It's obvious.
 
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