"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gave her my card

fracallday

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Hey dudes,
I know the answer to this already but just writing to see if there were any different opinions. I find myself catching a mild case of oneitis over this chick that I just met for a few minutes the other night. I was standing outside of the club waiting for my friend to come out and smoking a cig. This pretty hot chick comes over and asks me if i go to a university around here. I said no, told her I've been out of school a while and working and we get into a pretty good conversation and really hit it off. She gave me unsolicited advice on how to meet a "wife material" girl and telling me that's what I need, etc etc. In my semi-inebriated state, i told her she could be the one and i could tell she liked when i flirted with her like that but she said she has a boyfriend in another state. we really had a good conversation and had a few good laughs for about 10 minutes. she said shes in med school, shes gorgeous and came up to me, so naturally i was pretty psyched about this chic. i very rarely get that oneitis feeling about a girl i meet, especially at a bar. when i saw her friends leaving her, i told her (dumb) because she wasn't paying attention. before she left, she said i should give her my contact information, so i gave her my business card and didnt think to ask for her number or fb name(dumb move #2). i even forgot her name, so no way to contact her. only thing left to do is wait to see if she hits me up and i think theres a chance because she was bold enough to approach me. she didnt seem drunk, but anything's possible. anyway, some different insight would be appreciated. cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigneil

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fracallday said:
Hey dudes,
I find myself catching a mild case of oneitis over this chick that I just met for a few minutes the other night.
This underscores a critical point. As you gain your DJ strength, you will learn to resist beautiful women to a greater degree:

Your DJ Progression of Heartbreaks:

1) Fall in love with pretty girl who never looked at you.
2) Fall in love with pretty girl who looked at you (* OP broke here).
3) Fall in love with pretty girl who went on a date with you.
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19) Fall in love with girl after sex.
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35) Fall in love with girl after one month of courting.
36) Fall in love with girl after two months of dating.
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40) Fall in love with HB9 after four months of sex. (* I broke here).
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50) Fall in love after two year relationship.
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79) Never fall in love but maintain relationship.

The point is, as women become hotter and the relationships more intense, you might reach the breaking point, but as you become seasoned you can hopefully never fall enough to have oneitis.
 

r0cky

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Well I bet you you'll never make that mistake again!
However, the fact that she was giving you tips on meeting a wife and her excuse of having a bf (yeah it was an excuse, girls with bf's dont go bars) just put you in the sh1thole. So if I were you, I wouldnt be beating myself up for not getting her contact info.
 
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