“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gauging her IL

Mr.Suave

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Broke up with ex few weeks ago and I met borderline hb7 a week ago. Got her number and started texting her yesterday. Anyways, I set up a date this saturday but she seems not so interested in my offer though she said yes. I want to really know if she has low Il because I dont want to waste my time and money with a borderline 7. I cant call btw.. I dont know yet why. Its just text but high IL girls text different not just smileys

Im thinking of texting her if she "really" wanted to go out or not. Any suggestions?

Oh if you would check my past thread I was paranoid and **** but my gut was right and she was cheating on me so I dumped her:nervous:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

TheException

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She said yes.....most times if a woman is "not interested" you will hear a million excuses of why she cant meet up:

-my dog died
-I have to study for a test
-Im sick
-Work asked me to stay late
-etc

Just show up to the meetup and take it from there. DONT SEND a stupid "are you really sure you like me enough to go out with me" text.....a little desperate and insecure dont ya think?
 

Harry Wilmington

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This, btw, is one of the many reasons I say TEXTING KILLS RELATIONSHIPS. Bottom line, some women are not good texters. I once dated a girl who used periods at the ends of all her sentences (which doesn't give off the mood of excitement) and would only send me short answers when asking her out. Yet, lo and behold: we'd meet up, go out, go home, and bang the f--k out of each other. Interested? Absolutely. Interest readable through text? Hardly. That's why it's better to do a phone call, so you can hear in her voice how excited she is to go out with you.

Don't let the text fool you. If she's saying "yes," that's all you should care about.
 

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Since women are not good texters you have to assume they're all bad at texting and stoop to their level. As PHM says, text to set up meetings and that's it. The only kind of texting that kills relationships is the comical conversations I see betas posting where they're trying to be all witty and sexual. Stop that sh!t.
 

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Well, its true that she really does end every sentence with a period but she said yes nonetheless so lets see If she'll flake or not. And you all got a point. Thanks.
 
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