"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gas their hamster up AFC style!

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Here's a thought...with so many AFC's and orbiters running around fawning over HB's these days...has anyone ever thought of gassing up a chicks hamster brain AFC style in person (not online, FB)?

What I mean by this is..NOT being an AFC NOR an orbiter but being the same truly confident dude, not chasing them, becoming the best YOU can be...but playing chicks like a pimp by every so often gassing their hamster brain up a bit with a compliment or two and while keeping your same confident non needy frame making them think "Oh he's nice but not up my a$$." and possibly craving more 'nice guy' from the guy who isn't chasing her and only giving her the 'afc' compliment treatment in small doses. Kindof like a pimp does when he uses the smooth 'complimentary' talk to lure a chick in while showing her he's in charge in the near future yet every so often showing her 'signs' of caring and gassing her up a bit as she's the 'best'.

You and I see it all the time with famous people, etc. People gassing their heads up but not being a pushover themselves.

Face it. Chicks love compliments...AND they love a guy they feel they have to 'tame'. With the right moves dudes can implement small doses of compliments while NOT fawning over a chick making her possibly crave more from the 'challenging' dude. IE: "Oh he was so nice to me. I need to make him be more nice to me..let me prove myself to him to 'win' this challenge."

Kindof riding the line of non needy confident guy and 'nice guy' to hook a chick or a few to have them attempt to pull you to their 'nice guy' side which you obviously shouldn't let happen but be a GOOD person.

discuss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I suppose ive been doing this for a bit now , I grew up a fairly nice guy , so killing my former personality didn't really work , now Ive become a ballsy confident guy that has manners and gives compliments , but there few and far between

ive found the stuff on this site to me mediocre at best , I only come here for the "feedbacklol" I think every one has to find what works best for them
 

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Old skool times this was called `being charming` and a `flirt`

Its not a new concept, just a repackaged description for 2012 - it always has been and always will be my modus operandi


Cablecow sucks lol lol ;)
 

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TonyBaloney said:
Old skool times this was called `being charming` and a `flirt`

Its not a new concept, just a repackaged description for 2012 - it always has been and always will be my modus operandi

Exactly. Chicks do it all the time to dudes as evident on countless threads on this site. Gas your head up while not meaning it as they disappear. Time to fake the funk right back at them while staying true to YOURSELF until the chick possibly proves shes worth it. Play 'afc' compliment yet don't be an afc. Give em small doses of compliments and disappear and let them wonder why you thought they were 'great' and you may possibly have found something better. Hook em with the afc BS and be a challenge at the same time.
 

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Just keeping em hoes guessing. I like it!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Let your actions define you. The words really don't mean much.

Look at the lyrics of most songs, can't get any more AFC than that, yet these singers have no problem pulling whatsoever. In fact the AFC talk makes them even more wanted by women since it contrasts with the reality that these guys would never commit to the average female fan but dangle that fantasy of "you being the one for me" in front of them the same way women drive us crazy with revealing clothing but just wanting to be "friends"

If you're a guy with lots of options and women chasing, you could say the most AFC sh*t to her and she'll eat it up. Its all about context.
 
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