"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gas station blues

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I was attempting to buy a pack of cigarettes with a handful of change and it wasnt working out cause i didnt have enough, i turned around smiling saw this hot girl in the back made eye contact, she came to the register trying to buy something, she was broke too, she asked me for 75 cents and i asked her for a cigarette she gave me 4 and followed me like a duckling out of the door kind of stalled i went into my truck desperate to light a stoge and she asked me which way i was going.. I pointed and she left. What im asking here was she hitting on me i feel like it was blatantly obvious she was interested but maybe its in my head. Itd really improve my game if i understood signals better
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bassmasterzac said:
I was attempting to buy a pack of cigarettes with a handful of change and it wasnt working out cause i didnt have enough, i turned around smiling saw this hot girl in the back made eye contact, she came to the register trying to buy something, she was broke too, she asked me for 75 cents and i asked her for a cigarette she gave me 4 and followed me like a duckling out of the door kind of stalled i went into my truck desperate to light a stoge and she asked me which way i was going.. I pointed and she left. What im asking here was she hitting on me i feel like it was blatantly obvious she was interested but maybe its in my head. Itd really improve my game if i understood signals better
Dude you ****ed up.
 

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Thats what i thought lol
Whatever man, you live and you learn. Every **** up you make, only makes you more experienced so that you don't make the same **** ups in the future.
 

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Yea i can guarantee when you get in a similar circumstance again, whether it's in a gas station or not...you're going to think back and not do the same thing you did
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah no doubt i learn too many lessons with women lol ive had 2 bad breakups that messed me up and i kind of shut off from the woman world and lose my ways it sucks
 

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Bassmasterzac said:
Thats what i thought lol
We've all been there. I remember when I first found game a chick was eye fvcking me in the supermarket. All nervous like I said "nice shoes", she came over to me straight away with a big smile. Then I say "yeah my girlfriend has a pair exactly like them" WTF??? What's even sadder is my girlfriend dumped me a month or so beforehand.

Going back even further in my AFC career I had hot half undressed 18 year old's in my bed on more than one occasion and I was too much of a "gentleman" to do anything.

If I could go back in time I'd beat the living suitcase out of that kid. What a mewling cvnt.
 
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Don't feel bad man, we've all been there. I remember when I first found game a chick was eye fvcking me in the supermarket. All nervous like I said "nice shoes", she came over to me straight away with a big smile. Then I say "yeah my girlfriend has a pair exactly like them" WTF??? What's even sadder is my girlfriend dumped me a month or so beforehand.

Going back even further in my AFC career I had hot half undressed 18 year old's in my bed on more than one occasion and I was too much of a "gentleman" to do anything.

If I could go back in time I'd beat the living suitcase out of that kid. What a mewling cvnt.
Thanks for the inspiration man. I had a hot girlfriend who was dying to **** me, invited me to her house so many times, kicked a party out and straightforwardly told me she wanted to have sex, but I too was too much of a "gentleman" you inspired me to change my ways man. Id let you beat me in the head with a suitcase a few times cause Lord knows I need it
 
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