Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gas station blues

Bassmasterzac

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I was attempting to buy a pack of cigarettes with a handful of change and it wasnt working out cause i didnt have enough, i turned around smiling saw this hot girl in the back made eye contact, she came to the register trying to buy something, she was broke too, she asked me for 75 cents and i asked her for a cigarette she gave me 4 and followed me like a duckling out of the door kind of stalled i went into my truck desperate to light a stoge and she asked me which way i was going.. I pointed and she left. What im asking here was she hitting on me i feel like it was blatantly obvious she was interested but maybe its in my head. Itd really improve my game if i understood signals better
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bassmasterzac said:
I was attempting to buy a pack of cigarettes with a handful of change and it wasnt working out cause i didnt have enough, i turned around smiling saw this hot girl in the back made eye contact, she came to the register trying to buy something, she was broke too, she asked me for 75 cents and i asked her for a cigarette she gave me 4 and followed me like a duckling out of the door kind of stalled i went into my truck desperate to light a stoge and she asked me which way i was going.. I pointed and she left. What im asking here was she hitting on me i feel like it was blatantly obvious she was interested but maybe its in my head. Itd really improve my game if i understood signals better
Dude you ****ed up.
 

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Bassmasterzac said:
Thats what i thought lol
Whatever man, you live and you learn. Every **** up you make, only makes you more experienced so that you don't make the same **** ups in the future.
 

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Yea i can guarantee when you get in a similar circumstance again, whether it's in a gas station or not...you're going to think back and not do the same thing you did
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah no doubt i learn too many lessons with women lol ive had 2 bad breakups that messed me up and i kind of shut off from the woman world and lose my ways it sucks
 

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Bassmasterzac said:
Thats what i thought lol
We've all been there. I remember when I first found game a chick was eye fvcking me in the supermarket. All nervous like I said "nice shoes", she came over to me straight away with a big smile. Then I say "yeah my girlfriend has a pair exactly like them" WTF??? What's even sadder is my girlfriend dumped me a month or so beforehand.

Going back even further in my AFC career I had hot half undressed 18 year old's in my bed on more than one occasion and I was too much of a "gentleman" to do anything.

If I could go back in time I'd beat the living suitcase out of that kid. What a mewling cvnt.
 
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Don't feel bad man, we've all been there. I remember when I first found game a chick was eye fvcking me in the supermarket. All nervous like I said "nice shoes", she came over to me straight away with a big smile. Then I say "yeah my girlfriend has a pair exactly like them" WTF??? What's even sadder is my girlfriend dumped me a month or so beforehand.

Going back even further in my AFC career I had hot half undressed 18 year old's in my bed on more than one occasion and I was too much of a "gentleman" to do anything.

If I could go back in time I'd beat the living suitcase out of that kid. What a mewling cvnt.
Thanks for the inspiration man. I had a hot girlfriend who was dying to **** me, invited me to her house so many times, kicked a party out and straightforwardly told me she wanted to have sex, but I too was too much of a "gentleman" you inspired me to change my ways man. Id let you beat me in the head with a suitcase a few times cause Lord knows I need it
 
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