"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Garish Shirts/Peacocking

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Derek Flint

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Most of that Peacocking s*** is gay.

Spare me the "But it works for Mystery" argument.

Dressing up in a flamboyant manner to attract women is non-alpha and afc.

Just my opinion.
 

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I dont fully peacock from head to toe, unlike some PUA's. I usually just wear one item that is outlandish........such as glow in the dark necklace, or pimp hat.

I actually have gotten into the glow in the dark sh*t. It looks really neat in clubs.


~Smooth
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Most of that Peacocking s*** is gay.

Spare me the "But it works for Mystery" argument.

Dressing up in a flamboyant manner to attract women is non-alpha and afc.

Just my opinion.
I know some of the guys here have gone back and forth with you on this one, but what do you think about guys who just have a naturally peacocked clothing style? If a guy just liked to wear crazy sh!t, is he an AFC?
 
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