Garga was enlightened

[gargamel]

Just call me AFC!! Cause it seems like that's who I am!

FACTS:
-I had sex w/ my GF 3 times last night
-I am in love and wish to say it
-NO, I don't give a fvck what consequences that may bring!
-I actually think that would help end the relationship, but I can't hold it anymore
-I know I should chill now, but I feel such urge to yell I love her from the top of my lungs


Since I read the bible, girls literally stick to me like glue. I still get 10 love letters a month from the last time I was in my home town.. And I can't get why the world is soooo fvcked up that now, when I'm really in love, I can't get her to chase me as if I was the Prize, the Challenge, the last real man on earth! Cause that's all I read in my fan-mail. From girls I don't give a fvck for!

This just ain't fair. I think this is mother nature's way of making me pay for all the broken hearts I left behind..

I'm in much pain bacause of what I learned through out the process of becoming a DJ - many times I'm acting in conflict with my emotions just to accomplish a goal.

I don't beleive in "ends justify the means" I'm more of a "travelling is about the journey, not the destination" guy. My goal is to find meself a girl to love and be luved by, nothing else. Bvt I beggining to think that when you are in a relationship, things tend to get out of your control. I actually feel like I can't influence the relationship anymore.

So far, I found no reassuring advice on LTR on SS - and am losing hope I will. So I guess it's true that it's a DJ's goal to GET not to KEEP. I'm just plain dissapointed..

AAAARRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!

 

[MindOverMatter]

Brate smiri se. englezi imaju posvlovicu "the higher the climb, the longer the fall". Znam da ti je trenutno lepo sto imas devojku, ali smiri se. Ako nastavis da se ponasas kao decak s'ovom ribom, ima da joj dosadis. controlisi se.

To everyone else. What seperates a successful seducer from an AFC (for the lack of a better term), is willpower. Once he gets what he wants, the AFC becomes so happy that he loses his willpower. A seducer on the other hand maintains his willpower, and stays focused on his goal.

An AFC becomes infatuated with the girl he is seeing/sleeping with, and loses her for that exact same reason. Remember, in relationships and life, it feels much better when we earn something, then when it is given to us on a silver platter. By getting infatuated right away, you give yourself away on a silver platter. While the girl may appreciate the easyness of it at first, she will never be satisfied the way she would if you had made her earn you.

A seducer on the other hand gets girls to be infatuated and obsessed with him. Whether it is one girl in a LTR, or 7 girls he's screwing on a weekly rotation, the goal of the game is to get into their heads and make them miss you as soon as you aren't around. When you have the girls leave you messages saying they miss you and whine about how they never get to see you/miss your sex and are frustrated/on the verge of tears because of this, you have accomplished your goal.

Control/lower down your infatuation, and increase hers. Build your power, and don't get reckless just because you are happy at the present moment, because it may not last.

 

[gargamel]

Brate, lako je to reæi!! jebote, mnogo sam se sjebao izmeðu nekih pravila i onoga što BI uradio


Easier said than done! How DO you Control/lower down your infatuation and increase hers / build your power in a LTR - that could easily be the hardest thing I tried lately!

 

[spider_007]

LEAN BACK AND RELAX

enjoye the moment, don't rush things