"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ganjii Success!

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Master Don Juan
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I successfully ganjii-ed this friend of mine that had given me the "i'm not ready for a relationship" speech and the "i'm not that kinda girl" speech when i tried to get around the relationship.

So i figured i'm ****ed, might as well do Ganjii. Ignored her for two weeks.... Now she's talking about coming to my town to see her friend. And she has an "idea" .. lol.. that we could meet up. Hahaha she's so AFC. I didn't give her a response.

I'll let her simmer some more, she's been im-ing me everyday. :rolleyes:



Being an assh0le is where its at.... :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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